(12-31-2024, 07:32 PM)HardcoreRetro wrote:She's pretty direct and cold about these things to be honest and all about numbers and statistics, I think she'd agree overall. She basically told me the same thing when she talked about not being able to get 'fun dates' anymore on the apps the first time we met. Thing is she gained some weight and she passed 30. So the guys looking for fun dates with college girls lost interest but I wasn't going to break that to her the first time we met. It's also one of the reasons why I was so excited that I felt something for her because it was without the need for apps and I specifically mentioned that in my message to her as well. I knew the rules of the Tinder game before I started and I would rather have skipped it.(12-31-2024, 05:39 PM)Nintex wrote: she would've rejected me with: "eewwww creep" or something like that.
You should show em this massive screed above where you give all the girls a metacritic score. That'll surely make them think you're a cool and handsome chad.
A lot of millenial women are complaining about this on X and other social media platforms. They were hot shit before and their phones were buzzing and exploding with notifications and suddenly the hot guys aren't interested anymore or even 'break up' the fwb arrangements. Some think this is about the 'ability to have kids' but the reason is simple, these guys have their age limit set to max 30 and there is plenty of other girls they can get below 30, so why bother changing the search filter? And in some ways the girls understand it but they all think it will happen to all the other girls but not to them. Same as it works in Hollywood and even the porn industry for the female talent.
The real trap of Tinder for women is that they don't find a relationship but basically go from hook up to hook up for years until they're burned out or too old.
That's one advantage men have. Lots of women will date men that are older but rarely will men date women that are older.
When I first started Tinder it defaults to 20 - 40, so I got swamped with likes from 40 year old women.
