(01-31-2025, 09:35 PM)Hap Shaughnessy wrote: https://www.resetera.com/threads/what-are-your-thoughts-on-polyamory-and-ethical-non-monogamy.1096596/page-2#post-135104937
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Jencks wrote:deimosmasque wrote:Why?Real relationships are about making compromises and accepting the others flaws. Open relationships, as I have largely seen them play out, are just people farming out their specific needs with a harem.
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Jakisthe wrote:Fundamentally unstable and unworkable.
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RadiumKnight wrote:I'd rather just be single. One relationship is already a headache and time-consuming when you factor in the time it takes out of your day. I would just hate being accountable to so many people. I also don't believe there's any way partners can give each other the same attention as they would in a monogamous relationship.
Not to yuck others' yum but I also think being in love with multiple people devalues it in the same way that when you're in a hoe phase when you're single people take you less seriously, they assume you view the sex as meaningless etc. It always reads as finding a way to navigate having your cake and eating it.
If you're not hurting anyone and consenting like that's totally fine, I just get a headache even thinking about it.
Typical Resetera reaction. People are asked for their opinions and invited to discuss the topic, they approach in good faith and give their thoughts, some mod takes personal offence and starts the bloodletting.
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