Random Talk

[Nintex]

24F send me a message at 8AM that she wanted to chat tonight but was busy during the day.
I said that was fine but now that I'm home she has ended the chat.

She is still in my list though and hasn't blocked or removed me, maybe she wants me to like her, playing a silly 'hard to get' game and if not I'll just add lonesome Asians with low self-esteem to my overall target list. I never quite realized how many more cards there are to play if you don't 'necessarily' lower your standards but simply expand your pool.

Are you looking for a long term GF? Or just playing the field

Best is long term GF but fun weekends or even Netflix and chill is fine too and maybe that can turn into something more but with a 24 y/o Asian au pair that's here for 4 months and barely speaks English the chances are slimmer. 

The 32F that I'm dating next weekend wants to 'build something real' and all that but she didn't mind I wasn't as serious as she is from the get-go and appreciated me being honest about my intentions. Also I try to keep the chats fun, she enjoys that too. We're both very sarcastic, I don't think there is a limit to our sarcasm at least I haven't found it yet. She tells me the artist she hates the most, I tell her I'm the chairman of his fanclub and it derails from there  

But if she's as decent looking as I think she is, we vibe well IRL and her dog doesn't kill me, well I wouldn't mind to keep dating her. Overall she likes/dislikes a whole bunch of things I do and has passions of her own like music and nature photography which I can easily engage in.

What she wants is viable too with our incomes and in this stage of our lives, we can build something for 2 to 3 years, find a nicer place to live in my beach town with little pressure and start a family. She hates the dating apps and she's kind of getting too jaded to keep exploring options for much longer. 

She's also not too demanding but the most important thing she seeks is fairly specific and difficult to find these days: no negativity. And she's kind of shocked that she found it in the gacha machine. She tried to bait me into becoming negative and she just couldn't get any negativity out of me and then after a whlie she finally told me and I didn't even realize she had been gaslighting me.