Watched The Last Crusade with my best bud he felt pretty bad for me that all the dating plans fell through especially in my birthday week but we had a good time and lo and behold The Last Crusade released 1989, the same year I was born. I told him about the whole thing and had him read some of the chats.
32F Radio girl
He wasn't so sure how much she was willing to put in effort and time. Our best chat from last thursday was great because she put the time in too but the others 'eh' and she was just busy all the time. He thinks the 'I'm wasting your time' break up message was more about her realizing that if it worked out, she wouldn't have the time to make it work anyway plus she forgot my birthday. Also agreed with what Potato said, she'd be a handful. case closed
36F Hotel manager
He thinks that she's really into me and fun as hell and he suspects she'll get back to me once she is done mourning whatever is happening in her family. Basically what I think too.
And finally a hotel manager type somewhat less intelligent woman is the better fit. I cared little that radio girl had a high position I was more interested in her knowledge of music but I was beaming when I told him that 36F could taste 40 wines in 2 hours. If we're both intelligent like with 32F it just ends up in a competition of who can find more references, who can out-sarcasm the other, who has the best political view, who knows how to best solve a problem etc. . With 36F there was an interaction I hadn't seen before my friend pointed out, she liked it when I explained things she didn't understand in simple metaphors. The preference red/white wine was another interesting one, an intelligent person like me would argue about what would taste better with the food and everything while she just went: "Bubbles yay!!!" and send a smug emoji afterwards when I said it was a good idea.
32F Radio girl
He wasn't so sure how much she was willing to put in effort and time. Our best chat from last thursday was great because she put the time in too but the others 'eh' and she was just busy all the time. He thinks the 'I'm wasting your time' break up message was more about her realizing that if it worked out, she wouldn't have the time to make it work anyway plus she forgot my birthday. Also agreed with what Potato said, she'd be a handful. case closed
36F Hotel manager
He thinks that she's really into me and fun as hell and he suspects she'll get back to me once she is done mourning whatever is happening in her family. Basically what I think too.
And finally a hotel manager type somewhat less intelligent woman is the better fit. I cared little that radio girl had a high position I was more interested in her knowledge of music but I was beaming when I told him that 36F could taste 40 wines in 2 hours. If we're both intelligent like with 32F it just ends up in a competition of who can find more references, who can out-sarcasm the other, who has the best political view, who knows how to best solve a problem etc. . With 36F there was an interaction I hadn't seen before my friend pointed out, she liked it when I explained things she didn't understand in simple metaphors. The preference red/white wine was another interesting one, an intelligent person like me would argue about what would taste better with the food and everything while she just went: "Bubbles yay!!!" and send a smug emoji afterwards when I said it was a good idea.
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