Well it's a Tinder date. She picked Netflix and chill at her place. 37F this thursday. We've moved to whatsapp. Basically the kind of casual date I was looking for: veterinarian, not bad looking mid 7, great attitude, looks very good in a tank top with a decent rack.
Fun flirty chat but also meaningful. She's in the same boat as me. Hasn't had any action for a while, also unsure where to find safe/fun dates these days. Focused on work and her animals, buying a house, some setbacks and wasn't really open to a relationship basically ever. Happy with her life. However even though she understands sex is a part of dating she doesn't like the 'lets fuck' hookups, not open to that until there is a real connection (remember this). She liked me because of my new opener on Tinder: "Smartest man on this app
" it got her curious if that was true. Plus she's attracted to me. Overall she started the chat jaded and ended it very excited. A bit sarcastic too like me, we vibed well.
Long term prospects, well we've been open about it. veterinarian is difficult with my astma and she doesn't want kids (or can't have them is probably her issue but I didn't pry). She was impressed that as a guy I had everything planned and figured out by now but asked if I thought she fit into that picture. But then I surprised her because I said it didn't really matter. If a woman likes me and I'm into her, it would be shortsighted of me to turn her down just because she doesn't fit into a particular picture or maybe isn't my type. If the younger girls with tanktops don't respond or keep doing job interviews, well it's their loss and her gain. She loved that.
The transition to turning it into an actual date was also quite smooth
All that was left to do, was lock in the sex part. I told her I understood she didn't like 'lets fuck' hookups and I respected that and fucking behind McDonalds wasn't my thing either. But you know I was just a dreamy fish that loves movies like Casablanca and my ways of flirting, compliments, romance and paying attention to detail were out of fashion and out of place on Tinder. I was down to make love to a 37F in a tanktop even if she's a little older than me. Even if we're both not that experienced for our age, the brain is the most erogenous zone and sue me but I love your breasts and admit it I could easily pass for 30. And then well she capitulated. Tanktop, no bra and a trim, maybe a shave if she has the time. Little natural make-up, don't overdo it. "thank you nintex"
Kind of a perfect date to get back on the horse actually. Not looking for anything long term, maybe can't have kids(?), can relate to my situation, shares the same values/attitude, fine looking with great tits but not 9/10 smokeshow. Just a chill night watching a movie with a bottle and a classy woman, slow intimate no-strings love making after so I can take my time, no rush to go home. 10 minute drive so close by.
It's fun to make an appointment to basically fuck someone though, this time I moved it up when she wasn't open this weekend, should've done that last time because it shows I'm serious and into her.
"Friday?"
"hmm I have a birthday party on Saturday and I'll be late from work but maybe"
"well with you in that tanktop, I probably won't wake up early"
"hahahaha watch out I'll put you in a coma Nintex
"
"ok now you can't keep me waiting that long, how about thursday?"
"that works for me but does it work with your job Nin will you stay over?"
"well I usually start at 10AM and otherwise I'll make it a WFH day"
"thank you
"
Let's hope this one doesn't cancel but we set the time, I have her address, number and everything. Thursday is also quite mundane for me compared to lots of other days next week.
If fucking a 37F mid veterinarian in a tanktop isn't in the cards for me then god must have different plans and I will put that on my profile.
That being said if this fling somehow turns into something, I wouldn't mind it. If in another life at 36 this was Nintex's wife I wouldn't have done bad at all. As generic white woman she's better looking than most girlfriends of my friends and co-workers and we see eye to eye on many things. If she wants to stay FWBs whilst I keep swiping or do a couple more Netflix and chill dates, also no objection.
Also this being thursday keeps me open for another date on Saturday.
Fun flirty chat but also meaningful. She's in the same boat as me. Hasn't had any action for a while, also unsure where to find safe/fun dates these days. Focused on work and her animals, buying a house, some setbacks and wasn't really open to a relationship basically ever. Happy with her life. However even though she understands sex is a part of dating she doesn't like the 'lets fuck' hookups, not open to that until there is a real connection (remember this). She liked me because of my new opener on Tinder: "Smartest man on this app
" it got her curious if that was true. Plus she's attracted to me. Overall she started the chat jaded and ended it very excited. A bit sarcastic too like me, we vibed well.Long term prospects, well we've been open about it. veterinarian is difficult with my astma and she doesn't want kids (or can't have them is probably her issue but I didn't pry). She was impressed that as a guy I had everything planned and figured out by now but asked if I thought she fit into that picture. But then I surprised her because I said it didn't really matter. If a woman likes me and I'm into her, it would be shortsighted of me to turn her down just because she doesn't fit into a particular picture or maybe isn't my type. If the younger girls with tanktops don't respond or keep doing job interviews, well it's their loss and her gain. She loved that.
The transition to turning it into an actual date was also quite smooth
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All that was left to do, was lock in the sex part. I told her I understood she didn't like 'lets fuck' hookups and I respected that and fucking behind McDonalds wasn't my thing either. But you know I was just a dreamy fish that loves movies like Casablanca and my ways of flirting, compliments, romance and paying attention to detail were out of fashion and out of place on Tinder. I was down to make love to a 37F in a tanktop even if she's a little older than me. Even if we're both not that experienced for our age, the brain is the most erogenous zone and sue me but I love your breasts and admit it I could easily pass for 30. And then well she capitulated. Tanktop, no bra and a trim, maybe a shave if she has the time. Little natural make-up, don't overdo it. "thank you nintex"
Kind of a perfect date to get back on the horse actually. Not looking for anything long term, maybe can't have kids(?), can relate to my situation, shares the same values/attitude, fine looking with great tits but not 9/10 smokeshow. Just a chill night watching a movie with a bottle and a classy woman, slow intimate no-strings love making after so I can take my time, no rush to go home. 10 minute drive so close by.
It's fun to make an appointment to basically fuck someone though, this time I moved it up when she wasn't open this weekend, should've done that last time because it shows I'm serious and into her.
"Friday?"
"hmm I have a birthday party on Saturday and I'll be late from work but maybe"
"well with you in that tanktop, I probably won't wake up early"
"hahahaha watch out I'll put you in a coma Nintex
""ok now you can't keep me waiting that long, how about thursday?"
"that works for me but does it work with your job Nin will you stay over?"
"well I usually start at 10AM and otherwise I'll make it a WFH day"
"thank you
"Let's hope this one doesn't cancel but we set the time, I have her address, number and everything. Thursday is also quite mundane for me compared to lots of other days next week.
If fucking a 37F mid veterinarian in a tanktop isn't in the cards for me then god must have different plans and I will put that on my profile.
That being said if this fling somehow turns into something, I wouldn't mind it. If in another life at 36 this was Nintex's wife I wouldn't have done bad at all. As generic white woman she's better looking than most girlfriends of my friends and co-workers and we see eye to eye on many things. If she wants to stay FWBs whilst I keep swiping or do a couple more Netflix and chill dates, also no objection.
Also this being thursday keeps me open for another date on Saturday.