03-26-2025, 12:12 AM
Chatting with a Ukrainian for the kidney arc.
She was very arrogant and condescending yesterday. Insisted she hadn't liked me. Doesn't like the Dutch 50/50 mentality. Men should lead and pay.
Well frankly I agree 100%. She was open for a drink in Amsterdam but not my town and at a time that didn't suit me. Bragging about how she had dated many nationalities by mistake but holding out. Hot tho even at 36.
Long term, house, kids, men provide... the works. Transactional but doesn’t hold any cards.
Today I guessed she lived in Odessa and she worked in tourism. Wow I read people well and was so understanding about Ukraine.
Hit all her buttons one after the other. Talking about romantic mountain views in Switzerland and nights in Paris. How she would look great in red. How my parents helped Syrian refugees settle and a friend of a co-worker is in a drone squad. Wanted more and more, fully engaged. How few cards does she have? I found out: No job, temporary residency, doesn't speak Dutch. I cancelled the Saturday date it didn't work for me. Her arrogance backfired. "Shit you really are a smart guy..."
On monday we'll talk plans for a new date. She better make it more interesting. I'll happily pay but I want to add this flag to the map and she has no cards. We vibed well when she dropped her armor tho.
Things with 37F are going well she's really looking forward to our date. We talk about fun things and flirt a lot. She said she has an idea how to wake me up from my deep sleep. It's funny how easy it is to talk because there is no pressure of a relationship...
There is also no pressure of sex or not because we both want to fuck and are trying to find out what turns the other on. She also just bought a new bed same as I did. She hopes it doesn’t creak much but hasn't tested it.
Her attitude is refreshing just like me she's like: "yes, you should totally do that" to any weird, outlandish or daring idea.
Something strange is happening though. Because we talk so openly it could turn into something more. She was drinking too much wine, I picked up Vodka as a hobby during Covid. She quit smoking, I fixed my skin and sobered up. "Wow that's impressive, congrats".
There is just 0 judging, negativity, secrets or shit tests. I feel like I've known her for years, when she listed her favorite movies I almost felt stupid asking because I already knew. Both of us hate it when people talk through movies. We both sleep 12 hours easily. We even tried to figure out if we didn't meet before after all and that actually keeps her more busy than me. It's a deja vu or a glitch in the Matrix.
What a relationship between us would look like?
Nothing either of us is losing sleep over.
She was very arrogant and condescending yesterday. Insisted she hadn't liked me. Doesn't like the Dutch 50/50 mentality. Men should lead and pay.
Well frankly I agree 100%. She was open for a drink in Amsterdam but not my town and at a time that didn't suit me. Bragging about how she had dated many nationalities by mistake but holding out. Hot tho even at 36.
Long term, house, kids, men provide... the works. Transactional but doesn’t hold any cards.
Today I guessed she lived in Odessa and she worked in tourism. Wow I read people well and was so understanding about Ukraine.
Hit all her buttons one after the other. Talking about romantic mountain views in Switzerland and nights in Paris. How she would look great in red. How my parents helped Syrian refugees settle and a friend of a co-worker is in a drone squad. Wanted more and more, fully engaged. How few cards does she have? I found out: No job, temporary residency, doesn't speak Dutch. I cancelled the Saturday date it didn't work for me. Her arrogance backfired. "Shit you really are a smart guy..."
On monday we'll talk plans for a new date. She better make it more interesting. I'll happily pay but I want to add this flag to the map and she has no cards. We vibed well when she dropped her armor tho.
Things with 37F are going well she's really looking forward to our date. We talk about fun things and flirt a lot. She said she has an idea how to wake me up from my deep sleep. It's funny how easy it is to talk because there is no pressure of a relationship...
There is also no pressure of sex or not because we both want to fuck and are trying to find out what turns the other on. She also just bought a new bed same as I did. She hopes it doesn’t creak much but hasn't tested it.
Her attitude is refreshing just like me she's like: "yes, you should totally do that" to any weird, outlandish or daring idea.
Something strange is happening though. Because we talk so openly it could turn into something more. She was drinking too much wine, I picked up Vodka as a hobby during Covid. She quit smoking, I fixed my skin and sobered up. "Wow that's impressive, congrats".
There is just 0 judging, negativity, secrets or shit tests. I feel like I've known her for years, when she listed her favorite movies I almost felt stupid asking because I already knew. Both of us hate it when people talk through movies. We both sleep 12 hours easily. We even tried to figure out if we didn't meet before after all and that actually keeps her more busy than me. It's a deja vu or a glitch in the Matrix.
What a relationship between us would look like?
Nothing either of us is losing sleep over.