(03-30-2025, 10:11 AM)Polident wrote: Just saw an American guy with a MAGA hat and his Chinese wife wearing a keffiyeh. Never give up, Nintex. Love wins.
Thanks
Later this week I'm going to try one last time to see if I can convince her on a second date.
The issue is either
A) She wasn't that into me or astma + animals is a dealbreaker for her (perfectly possible)
B) My intentions weren't clear and at 37 she won't waste time fooling around
I can't fix A but I can fix B. If I make it clear I'm in for the long haul and what our life would look like, she might prefer that to staying alone.
If someone put a gun to my head and said Nintex you can have this woman but no kids or you can have a mid 6 with kids, I'd pick her.
Strongest connection I've felt to a total stranger in 20-something years. I want her to know that if she feels the same way there is another life path we can take since we're both at a crossroads. If she feels nothing for me, it is what it is and it wasn't meant to be.
Then her path is touring the world solo or going back to drunk functional dating.
My path will lead me to kill the boy and let the Kwisatz Haderach be born.
Easy path too, I already got liked by 2 chubby 30Fs on Bumble this morning to grind experience.
My new bed will arrive wednesday, then I will text her and my new path will be decided or should I let her go and just pick the easy path?