(04-01-2025, 07:31 AM)Polident wrote:(04-01-2025, 12:17 AM)Potato wrote: Dude, you need to widen the net and stop thinking every date is going to end up in happily ever after. You're sounding like a 15 year old girl. Just get your dick wet first and then reassess.
I do sort of believe in real connections and love and all that corny shit. But also there’s the old idea of “don’t buy the first house you see”. Sometimes people can fixate on the one option and ignore all others. You don’t know what’s real if you don’t know what’s not. Again, bad dates can be learning experiences to know what you want or don’t want.
Get options. Date multiple women. Choose the best woman from that pool you're dating. Dating multiple women will stop you from having one-itis (the phenomenon that this one woman is The One). Don't date women with tattoos - they're whores. Ask if she has any debt. Women are a minefield so treat it like taking job applicants and seeking the best candidate.