Random Talk

[Nintex]

Whatever happened to just going on a date to meet someone and then, if you hit it off, hanging out with them a bit more frequently to decide if you like the person enough to start a relationship? 
Nintex, you're treating dating like a job interview.
Maybe I've been out of the loop for too long and don't understand the whole online dating scene, but it is coming across a little business like and women tend to like some actual romance in their partners rather than being told, "here's six dot points on why I can perform romance with you".

That's what I want and the men want but the women want job interviews and a 'click' or 'spark'. This one had a bit of a romantic side because she was half Greek so she said she wanted to do a couple of dates right at the start when we walked to the restaurant and didn't believe that you could hit it off with just one date. I was happy because I fully agreed. 

With most of them though there is no flirting or anything. It's just a matter of trying to find the right 'fit' with interests, long term goals, class and income.
You meet, you talk, you see what the other person is like and you go home to think about it. Then their phone buzzes with new profiles.
Unless you have serious game and are seriously good looking, then you can pump and dump. 

She dated her last boyfriend because she thought it was serious, he said it was and introduced her to his friends. But most of the dates were just Netflix and chill "better for her allergies", 5 months later he tells her: "You were just my FWB until I find something better and I just did". That last one broke her. But that's also why she had compiled such an endless list of couples activities and she started the bf/gf texting experience with me right from the get go. 

It came out when she wanted to say 'yes' to me and then she realized she wasn't over that, hesitated and well, she panicked.
I was her first date after that guy, just my luck.