Random Talk

[Nintex]

That's what I want and the men want but the women want job interviews and a 'click' or 'spark'.

how do you know that's what they want when every single one has bounced

maybe they don't want midnight messages like sleep tight my glorious angel, I will care for you for the rest of your life and give you everything, after one date

Well yes I worded it differently but I fucked it up by messaging too soon in the maybe phase.

But that is what most women want though, their profiles are set-up like it too and their chats.
This one was actually a bit different, she wanted to snuggle and watch Netflix, eat together etc. that's why our chats were the most fun compared to the 20 or so other chats I've had which were mostly platonic. 

This girl actually brought it up at the date, that she thought it was weird that some people expected to hit it off on the first date and if I was open to you know, continue dating. One of her friends actually got pregnant on the first date. It worked out for a few months sort of, but that was still shocking to her.

But that 1 date decision is really why a lot of people don't make any progress on the dating apps.

That's why I'm planning to use a dating agency after my trip to Canada. They recommend at least 3 different dates after a match. A drink, something active like a walk and something intimate like watching a movie or dancing.  

Dating apps are just a nightmare. You meet someone not knowing if their pictures are legit, not knowing if they are even the person who they claim to be and if they aren't cheating, robbing or raping or whatever. I called off a few things too because I simply didn't trust it.