Well a strange but possibly very interesting match.
32F bubbly Latina
We connect in a lot of ways. She's kind of in the same boat as me. Dates that are called off or dates that remain purely platonic or in the friendzone. And we're both in a lack of casual dating experience camp. She's latina, she's passionate, so the entire idea of quickies behind a gym turn her off. curvy but curvy in all the right places too.
She had a confession to make. I said: "You have a kid". And she thought I was some kind of jedi mind reader
But that was it, a 4 year old kid that she'd rather keep out of it for now. For most guys that was a dealbreaker. She's looking for 'me time' basically. Fun dates, Netflix and chill. Not a long term relationship necessarily but not just booty calls either, she is looking for 'balance' and more or less an FWB but an intelligent one. Her break up story is ResetEra like. She got attacked, the guy was more traumatized than she was and afterwards he wasn't there to support her. So she had to go through all the trials alone.
On wednesday she's gonna hop on her bike (she's one town over) to see if we can make this work.
Anyway I learned my lesson. I told her to focus on the here and now on our date and leave out all the heavy things we discussed over the chat. We both know about them so there won't be any great secrets hanging over us like I had with 33F. We sure connected on it though, she took care of her grandma for 7 years, I looked after my parents. She has astma same as me, but apparently there are cats that don't shed hairs. But I know from previous dates that it'll get in the way of the romance. Unlike our favorite champagne.
But we both also realize that this FWB arrangement could get serious quick, because I'm the guy that does offer support and well she's just really into strong men with that type of zeal. For now that's not the intention so she has started to call me "Papi" and I said: "Whatever floats your boat or those milkers" and she said "Si papi
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32F bubbly Latina
We connect in a lot of ways. She's kind of in the same boat as me. Dates that are called off or dates that remain purely platonic or in the friendzone. And we're both in a lack of casual dating experience camp. She's latina, she's passionate, so the entire idea of quickies behind a gym turn her off. curvy but curvy in all the right places too.
She had a confession to make. I said: "You have a kid". And she thought I was some kind of jedi mind reader
But that was it, a 4 year old kid that she'd rather keep out of it for now. For most guys that was a dealbreaker. She's looking for 'me time' basically. Fun dates, Netflix and chill. Not a long term relationship necessarily but not just booty calls either, she is looking for 'balance' and more or less an FWB but an intelligent one. Her break up story is ResetEra like. She got attacked, the guy was more traumatized than she was and afterwards he wasn't there to support her. So she had to go through all the trials alone.
On wednesday she's gonna hop on her bike (she's one town over) to see if we can make this work.
Anyway I learned my lesson. I told her to focus on the here and now on our date and leave out all the heavy things we discussed over the chat. We both know about them so there won't be any great secrets hanging over us like I had with 33F. We sure connected on it though, she took care of her grandma for 7 years, I looked after my parents. She has astma same as me, but apparently there are cats that don't shed hairs. But I know from previous dates that it'll get in the way of the romance. Unlike our favorite champagne.
But we both also realize that this FWB arrangement could get serious quick, because I'm the guy that does offer support and well she's just really into strong men with that type of zeal. For now that's not the intention so she has started to call me "Papi" and I said: "Whatever floats your boat or those milkers" and she said "Si papi
"