Kulturkampf

[benji]

Why do they always demand that someone dictates all decisions for them?

The only way to get people to care about what they care about (which is mostly performative) is to hopefully make others feel guilty about whatever. It works because it's a signal to other idiots to demonstrate how much they care by parroting the concern. Everybody in your social groups repeating what you say after you said it, even if you're just repeating someone else, gives you the feeling of doing something and being a leader.