Journal of Other Forum Analysis (Volume II, Issue 1)

[saltygeneraltso]

Become okay with being corrected. This is hard. This is imperative.

If you say something and a trans person asks you to say it a different way, use a different word, or not say it at all, then you say THANK YOU. If you have to, ask them to explain why so you can understand and learn. This is not the time to get defensive or offended. You will be uncomfortable, especially us people-pleasers, but allies should be able to handle some discomfort.

especially us people-pleasers

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Just a Narcissist husband and his pushover wife that he groomed as a teen. Feels bad man. Maybe she'll get out some day.
Messy is the same thing, since they both use religious/cultural pressure to lock their "wives" down.

Anyway, remember when plagiarize was denying rapes on October 7th, on International Women's Day? (Of all days. The cruelty is the point. Etc.)