Random Talk

[Nintex]

Travel Nintex could be interesting, in dating terms.

Back when I was single and ready to mingle, I had to go to Nintex's corner of the world for a work trip. I got more likes in the 4 days I was over there than I would in 4 weeks back in the states.

Unfortunately I did not have the opportunity to bang any massively breasted 6-foot tall norden babes, but it sounds like Nintex's work trips are more flexible?

When I was at my bro I got 7 likes a day. Not all good but the volume was there.

Trip was too busy and I was staying at his place. Didn't know how to get around town either. Next year though? If I'm still in the same boat as now, I'll get an hotel and go to town. 

Overall getting more ripped is the final piece of the puzzle to land those mid 7's. I have the status and enough money to splurge, looks wise it's cute glasses, nice outfits, fit, 6"1 and clean face now but I lack muscle. Especially arms, shoulders. Better than I used to be, but too skinny still. Women on the streets, in bars etc. they talk to me and they notice me where they didn't before. but they're not seeing big enough arms to fall into or get strangled with. I'm in the "that guy could probably get a gf but he's not doing it for me" camp. Body wise I'm just slightly below that default level of man they have in their head. In Canada it was different, 6"1 is noticed there. The NATO summit will probably be good too. Demand will be higher than supply.

The latina if it continues, she'll be my romantic outlet and I'll be her rebound. She has lots of problems she needs to solve first. She might settle for me in time but it's no certainty and she left her previous guy too. Having her as the romantic outlet makes the other chats easier though. I can be her support animal as she doesn't get the "ick" from that. She feels guilty for not being able to go all in but that's just something we'll have to talk about if/when we finally meet again. I think it's most healthy for her to just come over for a little distraction every week or 2 weeks or so and focus on herself and her kid first. Our dates should be fun and relaxing not stressful. Once we're out of the 'crushing hard' phase and get it all out of our system she can decide what to do with a clear mind, navigate all the challenges and spend more time together, continue casual as is or call it quits. 

Meanwhile I'll continue responding to other women on the apps, trying to land dates ASAP and learn to move quicker.

Anyway I've send the personal trainer a message. I think I've seen this guy at a bar I visit often. He's a chill dude.