Random Talk

[Polident]

Got two new matches. One has the occupation "X at government". Which I'm guessing is the ministery of interior and I recognize her from somewhere. The other is a Chinese corporate bank chick. I updated the profile to lean into the villain theme more over the weekend and it's attracting the legal/government/corpo types. 

I've changed my chatting game and it's working quite well. I Ask what they're excited about once the convo gets going. It moves the chat away from talking about work, previous dates and other stuff that just kills the vibe. It also gives a way better sense of their private personality. I also keep it more serious. Funny curveball 'on brand' opener, a few jokes sprinkled in between but not overdoing it or making it too complicated. More aloof, less intense and also not putting a censor on things in terms of the gifs I deploy, American Psycho walks into their chat and The Wolf of Wall Street.
 
Good progress so far, Chinese chick moved things to whatsapp without a fuzz. Out of the two I find her the most attractive.

3 chats went nowhere because I figured out quickly the women weren't serious about dating, were depressed "is there anything to be excited about?" bye, or crazy "steak? red meat has parasites". This one is fun and sane so far, so let's see if tommorow we can set a time/place to meet.

Just the other day I had this convo with my friends as I was chomping down some Iberico pork chop cuisine. Where they concluded that I'm a cunt and I need a cunt wife and maybe we'd have cunt kids. And in this case my perfect weekend is her perfect weekend, is it something inspiring like coaching a kids soccer team, building a treehouse or being with family or whatever? No of course not, it's a list of activities for selfish cunts.

I gotta say, this whole journey you’ve been on makes me wonder if it’s grim out there or user error.

Connected to earlier mattress talk. I made the mistake of reading the mattress reddit forum. Some of those guys are nutso. They actively talk about losing their minds after spending months and years finding the right mattress made with highly specific coils and foams. Some guy will chime in with “I bought a serta at a mattress store and sleep fine”. Everybody jumps in with how bad the foam quality is. “What about tempur?” Oh apparently the foam starts sagging after a few years. Then there’s a whole crowd way into latex mattress from Malaysia. To say nothing about how many are hung up on the idea of mattress brands getting worse over the years. You can drive yourself crazy with choice paralysis.