07-29-2025, 10:40 PM
New date lined up, a bit older 38F, 2 kids, red hair and a big nerd, Pokemon tattoo level nerd.
How did I feel about tattoos, one of many shit tests.
I have no tattoos but I do have a cool friend that owns a tattoo shop. In other words I'm not anti-tattoo. It works. You gotta have the cards
I've put some new learnings to the test and to my surprise it works. She's a bit more chatty than others and a bit more intense, makes sense she's an ENTJ like me but not as trained. She's a bit exhausted from trying to control all the time so she'd like someone else in charge. It was easy to lead her on and she said I had no idea how romantic it was. However, when she hit me with: "How long are you single?" I just derailed the convo with a "you'll never guess what I'm doing" ... "I cook!" She thanked me for the fun chat, I thanked her for letting my food get cold.
If all goes as planned she's visiting my town late afternoon on saturday. I broke the 'rule' because none of my friends are around, most places are closed on monday and she had a saturday shift at the hospital so no kids for the weekend. I've picked the place where we can chill on the sofa close to my appartment.
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But most of all I broke the rule because it went in the kinks direction fast. She hit me off guard when I asked her if she knew what my favorite color was. She guessed: "Red, like my butt after you spank it". Correct on both accounts. Now I have to wait to see how she acts IRL as sometimes people just talk shit in the chat but it sounds like it'll be fun. I can deliver on the things that turn her on in fact they are highly compatible with my tastes. Plus she only recently discovered this about herself. Had one bf, married, divorced, is now exploring but picky(I was the choosen one from 400 likes she said, yeah I bet but I do think she's looking for quality like she says). I am going to shop for some entry level "stuff" if only to build-up my own excitement.
She thinks the Audi A3 is a very nice car and would suit my style, the feedback I needed on that decision. I'm mostly undecided on the color at this point.
How did I feel about tattoos, one of many shit tests.
I have no tattoos but I do have a cool friend that owns a tattoo shop. In other words I'm not anti-tattoo. It works. You gotta have the cards
I've put some new learnings to the test and to my surprise it works. She's a bit more chatty than others and a bit more intense, makes sense she's an ENTJ like me but not as trained. She's a bit exhausted from trying to control all the time so she'd like someone else in charge. It was easy to lead her on and she said I had no idea how romantic it was. However, when she hit me with: "How long are you single?" I just derailed the convo with a "you'll never guess what I'm doing" ... "I cook!" She thanked me for the fun chat, I thanked her for letting my food get cold.
If all goes as planned she's visiting my town late afternoon on saturday. I broke the 'rule' because none of my friends are around, most places are closed on monday and she had a saturday shift at the hospital so no kids for the weekend. I've picked the place where we can chill on the sofa close to my appartment.
But most of all I broke the rule because it went in the kinks direction fast. She hit me off guard when I asked her if she knew what my favorite color was. She guessed: "Red, like my butt after you spank it". Correct on both accounts. Now I have to wait to see how she acts IRL as sometimes people just talk shit in the chat but it sounds like it'll be fun. I can deliver on the things that turn her on in fact they are highly compatible with my tastes. Plus she only recently discovered this about herself. Had one bf, married, divorced, is now exploring but picky(I was the choosen one from 400 likes she said, yeah I bet but I do think she's looking for quality like she says). I am going to shop for some entry level "stuff" if only to build-up my own excitement.
She thinks the Audi A3 is a very nice car and would suit my style, the feedback I needed on that decision. I'm mostly undecided on the color at this point.