07-30-2025, 12:37 AM
As an ENTJ she is all in on her aesthetic as a redhead so I can relate. She said she has a Charmander, Charmeleon and Charizard.
I was kind of surprised though, usually it ends with the single moms around bed time. They are all excited, then they put the kids to bed, sometimes send a picture of the kids and the "guilt" sets in. This one put the kids to bed, so I thought here we go again and sure enough she send a picture of her cat but then it wasn't followed up by a picture of her kids but her kinks instead.
While she wants me to lead she hinted at how she wants the entire fantasy to play out. A 3 or 4 hour dinner has no use, I'll try to compress that in 2 hours max and then it's a go or no go. Movie with a blanket and cuddling is the thing she suggested to warm her up and then it's time for fun. We exchanged some favorite movies, she's no fan of Tom Cruise but she did like Top Gun Maverick. Chicks dig psychological thrillers but with 24F I found out they are mood killers for dates. I'm thinking something not too demanding with a nice pace and a little romance that can easily fade into the background and doesn't demand full focus and attention like Casino Royale.
Long term I have serious reservations but I'm just keeping my focus to get the most out of this first date. My profile is also a bit more fuckboi with new pics of me sitting at a beachclub and one where I'm wearing a white unbuttoned shirt with folded arms almost like I'm being interviewed for a love island thing or whatever. Also some close ups in addition to full body shots.
Also still had on my profile that I was a Christian, which at this point is debatable. So I've changed that to atheist. Again a signal that traditional marriage is not my focus right now.
I was kind of surprised though, usually it ends with the single moms around bed time. They are all excited, then they put the kids to bed, sometimes send a picture of the kids and the "guilt" sets in. This one put the kids to bed, so I thought here we go again and sure enough she send a picture of her cat but then it wasn't followed up by a picture of her kids but her kinks instead.
While she wants me to lead she hinted at how she wants the entire fantasy to play out. A 3 or 4 hour dinner has no use, I'll try to compress that in 2 hours max and then it's a go or no go. Movie with a blanket and cuddling is the thing she suggested to warm her up and then it's time for fun. We exchanged some favorite movies, she's no fan of Tom Cruise but she did like Top Gun Maverick. Chicks dig psychological thrillers but with 24F I found out they are mood killers for dates. I'm thinking something not too demanding with a nice pace and a little romance that can easily fade into the background and doesn't demand full focus and attention like Casino Royale.
Long term I have serious reservations but I'm just keeping my focus to get the most out of this first date. My profile is also a bit more fuckboi with new pics of me sitting at a beachclub and one where I'm wearing a white unbuttoned shirt with folded arms almost like I'm being interviewed for a love island thing or whatever. Also some close ups in addition to full body shots.
Also still had on my profile that I was a Christian, which at this point is debatable. So I've changed that to atheist. Again a signal that traditional marriage is not my focus right now.