09-02-2025, 11:37 AM
Dinner dates as a 1st date are risky. Your eating habits can cause icks, they might not like what's on the menu, the service can be lacking or they show up as a nervous wreck with gut issues. You both feel obligated to stay until at least the main course even if there is an immediate turn off.
It’s a classic case of women think they want something but most actually didn't like it.
C(m)ocktail dates at the beachclub work well. if they want something to eat anyway there is plenty to order and it’s overall more fun and feels less like a job interview or business meeting. Even if we didn't spark we both still had a good time.
It’s a classic case of women think they want something but most actually didn't like it.
C(m)ocktail dates at the beachclub work well. if they want something to eat anyway there is plenty to order and it’s overall more fun and feels less like a job interview or business meeting. Even if we didn't spark we both still had a good time.