Random Talk

[Nintex]

Real question: Have you sealed the deal with anyone since this love blog started?

Nope none from this year of app dating. 

Closest was the Latina in February, kinky redhead in July and the Rugby player in October.

With the Latina I ran into the nanny time limit on the 1st date. The redhead had a rough day at the ICU and the rugby player hit her 1st date 'boundary' for a serious relationship. 

The female "friends" culture is really the big change in this dating era. The girls 'date' with their friends: dinners, travel, drinks, movies, dancing etc. the activities they would normally do with their boyfriend. So partnering up with 1 guy and leaving 4 or 5 friends, some other FWBs and "travel"(i.e. discrete overseas fucking) behind is not something they want to do. It's why so many 'good' guys have checked out there are few single women (if any) in western culture that don't live by the rules of 'female empowerment' and prefer fuckbois as they offer the masculine energy their female friends can't. It's why being a good man, their best friend or nice guy doesn't work anymore they have plenty of friends.

If you're out there looking for a suitable wife to have kids and a happy family with in 2025 and you don't catch her before she starts to live 'independent' you're screwed.

Even with this german girl things started with fuckboi energy. She was just fooling around with the app looking to chat with locals. I gave her some tips on bars and restaurants. Late at night she reported back she was drunk in bed throwing up in a hotel 2 streets away from here and I wanted her to come over with her melons. If we actually end up together that's the story of how we "met". Remotely we're passed 1st date "getting to know eachother" phase already but unlike others I've had at this junction she's not crashing out as we continue to bond. And as she clearly developed feelings giving her the choice of having me or having her sing along might work out in my favor. She knows I have a soft side but also a "shut up and show me those milkers" side. With the Latina I never stood my ground strong enough to say: "It's you, me and your kid or just you and your kid".