11-21-2025, 12:18 AM
Well 2 date things planned for the weekend.
1. Drinks at a rooftop bar with a 37 y/o on saturday. Like me has a full independent life. She wants to do a videocall before the date. I said fine but I can’t check if you're not in a wheelchair. A more sophisticated single mom. Fun fact also has a brother in Canada.
2. Singles drinks event in town on sunday. Came across it by coincidence. "Mingle the single". Never went to any of these. Fairly low effort to drop by usually a surplus of girls and women at these things and guys in their 40's looking for replacement moms/gfs/therapists/mothers. Over the other guys and actual paying members I will have the home advantage. If I get traction on dating apps I certainly will here.
On 2 others I'm going to do a reverse psychology "sorry for ghosting busy day how about we meet"
Rookie mistake with the fuckboi profile asking their numbers too soon which short circuits their volatile brains.
Fantastic chat with the German girl. She likes Piano music so we're doing a second playlist.
I send her a bunch of Hans Zimmer clips and the Inception piano solo gave her goosebumps. Like the Latina girl when she gets emotional the native language comes out. If she's still flakes next weekend but remains in touch I'll just switch to long distance dating contact with video calls and such until she can visit.
Bought an astrology book that's catnip for women. Gives a full reading of personality based on birthdays and it's quite accurate for me and her. Although she didn't like that it said "non-commital" as a weakness for her it's overall a Huge win.
37f actually wanted the date because of what ChatGPT says about me and what matches best. She was highly intrigued by my AI analysis. Also made a long list of rooftop bars and skybars we're very productive together. Who knows the German girl can be the chat gf cheerleader, this woman the frequent bar girl and whomever I find at that singles event the shy stay at home movie cuddling nerd.
Gym session went well today this guy might even be better than my previous trainer. He just throws on a little bit extra weight in any way he can. Total gym bro. There was a girl training at the same time and we took turns and she wasn't amused that I did everything 2x faster and heavier than she did and her 2nd of reps was way less intense than mine.
1. Drinks at a rooftop bar with a 37 y/o on saturday. Like me has a full independent life. She wants to do a videocall before the date. I said fine but I can’t check if you're not in a wheelchair. A more sophisticated single mom. Fun fact also has a brother in Canada.
2. Singles drinks event in town on sunday. Came across it by coincidence. "Mingle the single". Never went to any of these. Fairly low effort to drop by usually a surplus of girls and women at these things and guys in their 40's looking for replacement moms/gfs/therapists/mothers. Over the other guys and actual paying members I will have the home advantage. If I get traction on dating apps I certainly will here.
On 2 others I'm going to do a reverse psychology "sorry for ghosting busy day how about we meet"
Rookie mistake with the fuckboi profile asking their numbers too soon which short circuits their volatile brains.
Fantastic chat with the German girl. She likes Piano music so we're doing a second playlist.
I send her a bunch of Hans Zimmer clips and the Inception piano solo gave her goosebumps. Like the Latina girl when she gets emotional the native language comes out. If she's still flakes next weekend but remains in touch I'll just switch to long distance dating contact with video calls and such until she can visit.
Bought an astrology book that's catnip for women. Gives a full reading of personality based on birthdays and it's quite accurate for me and her. Although she didn't like that it said "non-commital" as a weakness for her it's overall a Huge win.
37f actually wanted the date because of what ChatGPT says about me and what matches best. She was highly intrigued by my AI analysis. Also made a long list of rooftop bars and skybars we're very productive together. Who knows the German girl can be the chat gf cheerleader, this woman the frequent bar girl and whomever I find at that singles event the shy stay at home movie cuddling nerd.
Gym session went well today this guy might even be better than my previous trainer. He just throws on a little bit extra weight in any way he can. Total gym bro. There was a girl training at the same time and we took turns and she wasn't amused that I did everything 2x faster and heavier than she did and her 2nd of reps was way less intense than mine.
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