Anything has to be better than convincing himself he's Gordon Gecko crossed with Casanova rather than facing the reality that maybe he's just another internet nerd that discovered the gym but still lacks the complex human interaction skills that will make him attractive to potential long-term partners.
Approaching relationships like a transaction is what the problem is here. He thinks he has a winning offer because he's checked off everything in the checklist he thinks a woman is looking for, but women don't work that way. They're emotional creatures rather than logical. They don't approach relationships with a checklist, rating things out of 10. That's how he thinks this works and he's constantly surprised when they break things off after not being emotionally stimulated.
Nintex, you're my dude and I'm not trying to be mean, but seriously, on your next date, drop the Patrick Bateman act and just be yourself.
Approaching relationships like a transaction is what the problem is here. He thinks he has a winning offer because he's checked off everything in the checklist he thinks a woman is looking for, but women don't work that way. They're emotional creatures rather than logical. They don't approach relationships with a checklist, rating things out of 10. That's how he thinks this works and he's constantly surprised when they break things off after not being emotionally stimulated.
Nintex, you're my dude and I'm not trying to be mean, but seriously, on your next date, drop the Patrick Bateman act and just be yourself.
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