01-15-2026, 09:35 PM
That would probably work. The 2 leads I'm working on now.
34f from the singles community.
She said Hi and my first reply was the singles community felt too vintage Nokia for me. No gifs, no pictures. How about we move it to whatsapp? She agreed. She bombarded me with questions to make it more fun I started a pictionary. She had to guess from my travel photos that my brother lives in Canada and then she send me pics so I could guess where she lived. After a bit of fun she hit me with a "how was your day" so I'm letting it simmer for now and get back to her with a picture or video of my day tommorow. But in general I like this one for GF material. The interest she's shown tells me that one of the regulars I met or the organizer lady did me a solid.
39f from Bumble
Her opener was the last thing I laughed at (schadenfreude of people falling on ice) and I asked what she enjoyed. Of course it was her kid making a mess at dinner or something. Her profile was all about wanting an honest man and monogamy and all that. So I replied to the kid story: "To be honest kids are fine but I'm not applying to be a stepdad
" she said: "I understand". So I said: "In that case how about I steal Rapunzel for a movie night" and she's interested so I've asked her when she's available. 
2 more from Bumble I'm not feeling. Plus 1 that matched with me and never opened the chat. Shame because she is the best looking so far. Legit 9/10 but I think she was just promoting her Instagram so I followed her before the clock ran out. Maybe it'll lead to something.
Finally there is still 36f with scheduling issues. I'm going to try one more time on Sunday to see if we can plan something for next week.
Some others too, now traveling or doing winter sports say they want to date when they return. In my experience those seldom stick around and just find new matches or lose interest when they're back.
And always on the background, the girl from Germany. She checks in from time to time.
Also found out my gym bro trainer is a right winger, voted Lidewij de Vos (FVD). Wants the Netherlands to leave the EU. Like me noticed that most Dutch women are racist af. They use coded language like "not feeling safe" or "not feeling the vibe". Could've known body fascist, hardcore techno parties.
It was tough to hit the gym after the new years party though but I never skip a single gym day
34f from the singles community.
She said Hi and my first reply was the singles community felt too vintage Nokia for me. No gifs, no pictures. How about we move it to whatsapp? She agreed. She bombarded me with questions to make it more fun I started a pictionary. She had to guess from my travel photos that my brother lives in Canada and then she send me pics so I could guess where she lived. After a bit of fun she hit me with a "how was your day" so I'm letting it simmer for now and get back to her with a picture or video of my day tommorow. But in general I like this one for GF material. The interest she's shown tells me that one of the regulars I met or the organizer lady did me a solid.
39f from Bumble
Her opener was the last thing I laughed at (schadenfreude of people falling on ice) and I asked what she enjoyed. Of course it was her kid making a mess at dinner or something. Her profile was all about wanting an honest man and monogamy and all that. So I replied to the kid story: "To be honest kids are fine but I'm not applying to be a stepdad
" she said: "I understand". So I said: "In that case how about I steal Rapunzel for a movie night" and she's interested so I've asked her when she's available. 2 more from Bumble I'm not feeling. Plus 1 that matched with me and never opened the chat. Shame because she is the best looking so far. Legit 9/10 but I think she was just promoting her Instagram so I followed her before the clock ran out. Maybe it'll lead to something.
Finally there is still 36f with scheduling issues. I'm going to try one more time on Sunday to see if we can plan something for next week.
Some others too, now traveling or doing winter sports say they want to date when they return. In my experience those seldom stick around and just find new matches or lose interest when they're back.
And always on the background, the girl from Germany. She checks in from time to time.
Also found out my gym bro trainer is a right winger, voted Lidewij de Vos (FVD). Wants the Netherlands to leave the EU. Like me noticed that most Dutch women are racist af. They use coded language like "not feeling safe" or "not feeling the vibe". Could've known body fascist, hardcore techno parties.
It was tough to hit the gym after the new years party though but I never skip a single gym day