01-18-2026, 12:14 AM
33f 35f - she keeps taking the initiative, I could pick between lunch on thursday or wine next sunday so I went with wine next sunday
36f - I feel good about the date tommorow
39f - came back with more "my child is my world" so I hit her with: "Until it's bedtime
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If 39f has no mental space for anything but her kid it's the same as the latina and best to let it go.
But the interest is there, frustation even, same with 35f who is very pushy.
Overall I'm much calmer ever since I figured out what had frozen me and I realized why that is. Now that there is a clear medical cause and explanation there is no risk of a repeat. That messed with my head, what if I got stuck again.
36f - I feel good about the date tommorow
39f - came back with more "my child is my world" so I hit her with: "Until it's bedtime
"If 39f has no mental space for anything but her kid it's the same as the latina and best to let it go.
But the interest is there, frustation even, same with 35f who is very pushy.
Overall I'm much calmer ever since I figured out what had frozen me and I realized why that is. Now that there is a clear medical cause and explanation there is no risk of a repeat. That messed with my head, what if I got stuck again.
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