02-08-2026, 10:55 AM
Date this afternoon. The girl wanted to call because she felt I was somewhat cryptic over text.
Maybe I would struggle on the phone and was only a good texter but she said: Oh I just answered my own question.
Overall I should use more voice messages and calls. I get more immediate feedback and build that comfort level on the spot like I do on my sales calls.
not having an agenda works well though.
But I need to keep reminding myself. Most of these girls have no sense of style/art/aesthetics, that's their photographer or the Instagram filter doing the work. Not to mention copy paste bios they take from Reddit.
Discussed this with the photographer at the bar actually. 99% of people operate on the basic principe of monkey see, monkey do.
They just want the haircut of Taylor Swift or whatever or stand in the spot that's marked for travelers.
Maybe I would struggle on the phone and was only a good texter but she said: Oh I just answered my own question.
Overall I should use more voice messages and calls. I get more immediate feedback and build that comfort level on the spot like I do on my sales calls.
not having an agenda works well though.
But I need to keep reminding myself. Most of these girls have no sense of style/art/aesthetics, that's their photographer or the Instagram filter doing the work. Not to mention copy paste bios they take from Reddit.
Discussed this with the photographer at the bar actually. 99% of people operate on the basic principe of monkey see, monkey do.
They just want the haircut of Taylor Swift or whatever or stand in the spot that's marked for travelers.
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