Journal of Other Forum Analysis

[Uncle]

One of the most common mods from RPGs like this are making straight players able to romance gay characters. And the other way around. BioWare just decided to forgoe the nonsense and let the player live anyone.

What should be an ideal answer on paper and will satisfy the large majority (straight, gay,and otherwise), is obviously going to incense these particular weirdos.

Their entire identity is what they classify themselves as. They have no confidence or love for themselves, so they make their identity singular for whatever tag they attribute to themselves. What’s even dumber is that identity had no consistency and shifts based on what they think will give them, specifically they’re “suffering”, more validation.

It’s pitiful if I’m honest. They don’t want to live in their own personal space, know their minds or even attempt to love their bodies. They just demand people tell them how special/brave/important/beautiful they are, even as they themselves don’t believe it at their core.

they don't realize that not giving a fuck and just being yourself is often incredibly attractive to others, since that means confidence

they try to present themselves as catering to ever more insular niches, trying to find someone who will love THAT version of them if they just simp hard enough...and pathetically enough sometimes they run into others doing the exact same thing, and end up in this ridiculous larp where both parties are lying to themselves and their partner, roleplaying the entire relationship, hoping that they can fake it until they actually believe their own bullshit 

if you choose not to care so much, not to put that achievement on a pedestal and refuse to grind for it, you're more likely than ever to attain it