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“ I finally got rid of my lazy, dirty, impotent, good for nothing ex,” says lady who married a ree.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ive-woken-up-from-a-nine-year-toxic-relationship-i-need-help.956109/

Cried reading through this. I am really proud of you for getting to this point. I've not suffered in a situation with the stakes that you have, but I've been close to people like this and know what they're capable of.

You're on the right trajectory. The advice the people around you have been giving you is correct. Plant a firm wall between you and her, and help the kids climb over it to you. Give your kids a safe place to express their pain. And just keep going. Really truly, I know how hard it must have been to get to this point. And the grief you feel is not just over what you lost but over what you may be realizing you never really had.