11-12-2024, 11:51 AM
Although NepNeps "ideal" world has some pros I doubt she has thought about the cons.
- Lot of social control, you can't hide being a furry transexual in such an environment (and in some places folks won't like it one bit)
- There is an obligation to partake in a lot of social activities (you can't just pick and choose, there are expectations)
- People expect you to contribute especially if you are better off, which happens quickly if you're young and without a serious disease
- Overall you'll be poorer living in such a European state, people caring less about money goes both ways
- You have to share a lot with other people, in Scandinavian towns they have tiny houses with communal bathrooms and kitchens for example
- Not everyone in the group will be likeable and there will be a lot of drama (but some people actually like the gossiping)
- It's difficult for an outsider to be accepted into such a community (mostly depends on the location though)
- Its an easy prey for predators and criminals
Anyway I would tell her to move to Sweden.
A Serb co-worker of mine whose family fled from Serbia to the Netherlands during the Balkan war decided to move there with his Swedish girlfriend and he's living a very happy life there.
When he was still here he always voted for the socialist party because he had such nostalgia for Yugoslavia and Tito. He is probably one of the nicest and least selfish people I've ever met in my life. Which also explains why he didn't feel quite at home in the Netherlands where we have a lot of what NepNep describes but most people are very cold and distant.
- Lot of social control, you can't hide being a furry transexual in such an environment (and in some places folks won't like it one bit)
- There is an obligation to partake in a lot of social activities (you can't just pick and choose, there are expectations)
- People expect you to contribute especially if you are better off, which happens quickly if you're young and without a serious disease
- Overall you'll be poorer living in such a European state, people caring less about money goes both ways
- You have to share a lot with other people, in Scandinavian towns they have tiny houses with communal bathrooms and kitchens for example
- Not everyone in the group will be likeable and there will be a lot of drama (but some people actually like the gossiping)
- It's difficult for an outsider to be accepted into such a community (mostly depends on the location though)
- Its an easy prey for predators and criminals
Anyway I would tell her to move to Sweden.
A Serb co-worker of mine whose family fled from Serbia to the Netherlands during the Balkan war decided to move there with his Swedish girlfriend and he's living a very happy life there.
When he was still here he always voted for the socialist party because he had such nostalgia for Yugoslavia and Tito. He is probably one of the nicest and least selfish people I've ever met in my life. Which also explains why he didn't feel quite at home in the Netherlands where we have a lot of what NepNep describes but most people are very cold and distant.
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