The #MutualAid Housewives of Bluesky County

[nachobro]

and thats why you dont touch the poop

[kaleidoscopium]

The constant need for validation from others to confirm your own retarded ideas of gender is the downfall for all these balding men.

[Propagandhim]

Someone said they're a NEET, of which they are, in some anonymous webapp and they've been reeling for 2 days.  Needing an emotional self-care break.  This is not normal.

[Tektonic]

But isn't California.... NEWSOME COUNTRY?!

[simiansmarts]

But isn't California.... NEWSOME COUNTRY?!

 

[simiansmarts]

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[Jansen]

But isn't California.... NEWSOME COUNTRY?!

My dude they didn't move anywhere. A nice little grift they pulled there.

I hate to say it but Britt being successful has hurt my heart a little bit

[Jansen]

People outside of medical facilities still mask?  If me not masking is causing you emotional suffering than by God I accept that burden.

[HeavenIsAPlaceOnEarth]

I don't believe I have to know "what it feels like to be a woman" in order to know that the label “man” fits me and woman does not.

Hope this helps!

[Jansen]

Can you imagine how utterly destroyed inside their partner must be

[HeavenIsAPlaceOnEarth]

Oh fuck right off. Ain't no one trying to scrounge up money for food out there having subscriptions they can't cancel. And definitely not more than once, jesus fucking christ.

Anyone who falls for this bullshit deserves to lose all their money. Just give it all to the online perv, you absolute fucking morons.

[HeavenIsAPlaceOnEarth]

It's not the "continuing to live" that makes you a lost cause, it's the insistence that to do so requires other people fund your life. And all while telling such obvious lies.

[HeavenIsAPlaceOnEarth]

Wouldn't a trans person just claim they're in the "pain" state when their gender isn't being affirmed and in the "painless" state when it is?

Sure! It's when they insist that all other humans they encounter are responsible for providing pain relief that they can fuck right off. 

[Gamegirl Nostalgia]

A subscription to what. 

[Jansen]

[kaleidoscopium]

Feels like an AI model could be trained on Malds posts to spit these out for him every morning and save him some time. There’s little to no variety in the posts as is. Good way to boost your hood burger funds Malds, think about it.

[DavidCroquet]

A subscription to what. 

TooHotForItch.com: the internet’s last bastion for “free speech” 😉 

[Jansen]

https://bsky.app/profile/stovey.thequeer.house/post/3lx6wjxtv6s2w 

I might do some screen caps later but the gist of it is that this user which is apparently a well known person of gender tried to commit suicide recently and the transmafia are having a meltdown over it on BSky.



Whatever the case may be whoever is in control of the account right now is just telling the truth 🤷

[Jansen]

lesbophobia tag is hilarious 😂

[benji]

Isn't pain just referent to an internal contrast though?  How is that not the same as gender dysphoria?  Nobody "feels" their pain by using an external yardstick.  They know something is painful by the sense of contrast that never leaves the subjective conscious experience.  Wouldn't a trans person just claim they're in the "pain" state when their gender isn't being affirmed and in the "painless" state when it is?  Or would you just say that presupposes the conclusion because it is part of the delusion and they can't be trusted to self-report that kind of pain objectively?  That the pain comes after the delusion, not before it.

I think the problem with this is that you can experience not-pain and so can know pain. You can't experience not being a male/man. We can trust each others descriptions of pain versus not pain because of our common referent but we can't know what they're truly feeling. It's similar to the question of if you and I both see blue the same way, it's difficult because we've both always seen blue the same way and we can point at a bunch of shit and say "it's blue" but you can't truly know if I'm not seeing what you see as red. With those common referents we can reach understanding on pain or blue, but how would we do it on gender/sex? I think we can only do it by reifying stereotypes into replacing sex and that doesn't seem like an improvement. Maybe it is*, but it definitely isn't "shattering gender roles" or whatever they say.

Treating affirming their gender as solving the pain shouldn't be treated any different from telling someone they are too fat and should throw up more, that they are a brilliant metal guitarist or that they are in fact Napeoleon. You wouldn't do this, so why should you do it for gender? There's no explanation. It's claimed it's "easier" but this simply isn't the case, it's assigning everyone a duty to know everyone else's preferences at all times.

One of my biggest issues, perhaps from my own experience, is that whenever you read these people (for example Shreds) they aren't describing anything that has anything to do with gender, it's to do with just normal human shit. They just tie it to their gender because they have the delusional belief they can solve it with THIS ONE SIMPLE TRICK that involves doing something nobody has ever done and cannot be achieved. It's again similar to eating disorders because the person can never be skinny enough, these dudes are never going to believe they're woman enough. Lesbians will always reject them, women will always reject them, etc. "Gender" isn't their problem and never will be.

I also think their chasing of "gender euphoria" is essential because it presupposes that cis people are feeling gender euphoria all the time. And we're not. These dudes are going "boy I feel bad, if I was just the right gender I'd be constantly happy." Yeah, no, everyone else around you is not constantly getting off at their sex aligning with their gender. They're again confusing their mental health issues for a gender issue because it allows them to outsource the pain rather than accept something is actually wrong with themselves.

We know it's not their gender because we can see how they always interpret it, like Shreds and his hair alone or anything else most of these dudes do to "pass" that's beyond lazy low effort and almost always talking about tits, for the trans men it's their obsessions with penises and beards. They never actually are delving into gender conceptually, they're basically just going "man I'd be hot as fuck if I had tits and people will do anything for a hot chick."

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[benji]

[benji]

[Tektonic]

Hello this is Tektonic's other half. I'd like to apologise for all my posts here on thebire. But they were the other half posting, so i'm not actually apologising for anything.
Also give money. To either half, i don't care. Thanks

freedom means freedom from asking for donations? we will see.

[Jansen]

Just look at their pfp 😂

[nachobro]

her birthday surprise is asking for money 

[Jansen]

LOL so she moved out of the red state and still doesn't have permanent residence. I am totally fucking shocked that she'll be begging for money to stay at the Ritz again.

Topaz needs that extra queen size bed

[Jansen]

"Everything was phobia" - dolan

[Jansen]

[Jansen]

LEAVE THE HOUSE

There was once an infamous borian who would take nice quiet walks in the park. Try that

[HeavenIsAPlaceOnEarth]

Only a handful of terfs in the UK, yet support for trans people keeps going down?