03-14-2024, 03:28 AM
On discord
Hecht wrote:I do want to post here a snippet of what I had prepared for the Constructive feedback thread in case everything went south after Nep's apology though
I don't think you understand just how many eyes are on all of you, and your communities. The moment you decide to make a mountain out of a (potential) molehill, you are providing cover for more unsavory types to swoop in and escalate things. I've had to reach out to many users telling them that their personal information was found elsewhere because they jumped into some giant fucking argument and made themselves the main character of some shitty hate site out there. I mean I've had to do that for people that were just bystanders, too, but still. They revel in the dysfunction. They have nothing going on in their own shitty lives that they crave the drama and seek to make it worse. To be absolutely clear, these shitheads are to blame for any doxxing and the like, but we can all practice better OPSEC but just...being normal people having normal conversations. If it's not interesting to them, they have little to do. We've had several members of staff doxxed, myself included, and let me tell you, it's a grand ol' time. You can find it if that's your thing. At least they picked a cute picture of me.
Now, I'm not saying that you shouldn't bring things up that you find offensive or disruptive, or whatever. Things are going to happen. But we are not sitting here hoping for conflict. We'd love it if the forum could just be that, a forum. A place for people to discuss things without jumping down each others' throats over any possible slight or wording. I've said many times that if people could stop being dicks to each other and stop console warring, this would be the easiest fucking job ever.
I don't know if there was anyone in the Discord that provided the doxxing info (and, for the record, I have seen the posts elsewhere that doxxed Nep). But I also don't know that isn't the case. There are a lot of lurkers there, and when you have a channel dedicated to just shitting on the site, guess where people are gonna hang out and look for...well...dischord? I saw the post about KF, and it's not about whether or not that user was a KF member, or whether they even visited the site. It's the fact that they themselves admitted that they were out there looking. If I google her Twitter username, the first two results after the Twitter results are one of the gamergate subreddits, and KF doesn't even show up in the results. So there was a concentrated effort to find dirt. And to that I say, fuck that. If you find yourself searching for the same things you're gonna find on those sites, then perhaps you need to reevaluate your own life choices.
To be absolutely CLEAR - none of us were in your Discord when the KF post was made. A member of the PoliEra Discord server reached out to us to say that someone appeared to be researching Nep's personal details, which lead them to KF. They provided the screenshot. We later confirmed it. And I take that shit seriously, because the last thing I want is for a member of staff or a user of this site, to have to worry about getting doxxed or even worse, swatted.
So forgive me if this piddly little forum kerfuffle isn't really the top thing on my mind at the moment. I'm sick and tired of people picking fights because they want to assume the worst about someone on the other end of the internet, decide to escalate it into some dumbass schoolyard fight, and attract all sorts of fucks from around the internet to look on and do the shit they do. Enough of it. Act like fucking adults, or go to GameFAQs.
On Discord, in general
Discord is fine. It has its place. We do not have an official ResetEra Discord, because who the fuck wants to moderate a fast-moving chat room? We don't police your Discords either. We have other things to do. However, when someone brings us information, ESPECIALLY if it's of the "hey I was just wandering the internet and I tripped and fell into a hate site" variety, then yeah, I'll take that info and remove whomever was involved, because I have no tolerance for those kinds of assholes. Go. Vanish.
Y'all can have your Discords. If you want to chat about stuff in your communities off-site, feel free. Nothing stopping you. But just be aware the risk you take by essentially having channels dedicated to what amounts to pointing and laughing: you're just fostering an environment where groups become insular and seek validation from others - "I was wronged! Right, guys?" "Yeah, yeah! Fuck those guys! You did nothing wrong, they're the nazis!" Feel free to vent about whatever - as I said, nothing stopping you. But it's your house. You want to shit in your house, you can expect that no one wants to be around people who smell like shit.
ok, i'm done for now. bring on the onslaught
I've been doxxed, I can handle this shit
(thebore picked a cute pic of me at least)


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