Journal of Other Forum Analysis

[Potato]

“ I finally got rid of my lazy, dirty, impotent, good for nothing ex,” says lady who married a ree.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ive-woken-up-from-a-nine-year-toxic-relationship-i-need-help.956109/

Lesson for the Reeees reading this...don't stick your dick in crazy. Even if it's the only woman that will look at you. There's a reason she had no friends. She's crazy. Keep your dick out of it.

[Besticus Maximus]

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“ I finally got rid of my lazy, dirty, impotent, good for nothing ex,” says lady who married a ree.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ive-woken-up-from-a-nine-year-toxic-relationship-i-need-help.956109/

Lesson for the Reeees reading this...don't stick your dick in crazy. Even if it's the only woman that will look at you. There's a reason she had no friends. She's crazy. Keep your dick out of it.

Crazy is the only option available to the fat with inflated and grandiose self import. This opinion also extends to intra resetera transbian relationships.

[Hap Shaughnessy]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/black-myth-wukongs-content-creator-guidelines-include-not-mentioning-feminist-propaganda-politics-etc%E2%80%99-up-confirmed.955914/page-9#post-127327224

User Banned (Permanent) - Trolling, Downplaying concerns over misogyny, Account in Junior Phase

I'm already going to buy the game, I don't need any more reasons

[D3RANG3D]

Spoiler:  (click to show)(click to hide)

[Jansen]

Black myth ban when

Shame that shit ended up being true.

[Hap Shaughnessy]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/israel-palestine-the-ongoing-israeli-genocide-in-gaza-icj-orders-halt-to-israeli-offensive-on-rafah-see-staff-posts-for-posting-guidelines.772478/page-382#post-127337010

Should we have another dedicated hand-wringing thread about protesters, that for reasons known only to this site's administration merited its own thread, while posts about another couple dozen Palestinians being bombed to shit yet again is forced into a megathread?

What do y'all think? Makes sense, yeah, for the progressive forum.

[killamajig]

The post right above them is from a mod. Talking shit in the next post. Weak mods.

[killamajig]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ive-woken-up-from-a-nine-year-toxic-relationship-i-need-help.956109/post-127334259

NemesisTheory
Thank you. Truly. Every one of you. I have my ups and downs at the moment. Right now I'm a little angry more than anything else. Some stuff happened and I'm peering through the looking glass more and more.

I get it. Her reactions make more sense now. Her attempts at manipulation right now make more sense. I said "no" for the first time in ever. I can "see".

I will get through this. It might not be as easy to write or say this tomorrow. But I am surviving this bullshit.

Reee just feeds into their bullshit to reinforce their delusions. 

" Thank you Resetera, for supporting my bullshit narrative. Now I can go on and keep blaming everyone else and have no self-reflection whatsoever." 

God forbid any one of them actually take responsibility for their mess.

[HaughtyFrank]

Excel defending Blake Lively

Meanwhile Blake Lively

[Besticus Maximus]

Has anyone posted a confirmation about the monkey game that rises above ‘just trust me bro I’m super cereal?’

I don’t doubt that it could actually be real but the actual evidence seems fairly thin

Also I’m playing the shit outta monkey game, it seems like every game they go hard against truly does rule on the basis of its own gaminess.

[Taco Bell Tower]

“ I finally got rid of my lazy, dirty, impotent, good for nothing ex,” says lady who married a ree.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ive-woken-up-from-a-nine-year-toxic-relationship-i-need-help.956109/

I love these kinds of threads because you see the TRUE nature of ResetEra. 

For all their 'Believe women! Stop sexualising women! Keep women's tiddies and butts out of our gamez! OMG, Men suck so much!' screeching, they are nothing more than a deeply misogynistic, nasty, women-hating bunch of incels.

I read through all that Livejournal essay and Snoopy is right. That guy really is a useless sack of shit. Apparently broke his leg, now sits his ass at home all day eating and dreaming about suicide. His poor wife has to look after the 2 kids (which aren't biologically his. They are from a sperm donor), AND has an actual job and has obviously tried everything she can to make it work after 9 years with this deadbeat.

But look at the comments:

Get out.

Seriously. Get out.

It's a miracle you're still coming up with the strength to fight for yourself, and your self worth, but you really, reaaaally shouldn't have to.

No amount of arguing and standing up for yourself is gonna change the way she's treating you. If it hasn't changed in the past nine years, it's not gonna change now.

Do you really want to live the rest of your life like this? With a woman who makes it so hard?

Get out. I just left a toxic relationship of 4 years which wasn't too dissimilar to yours

My heart goes out to you. Thats a rough situation to be in.

My hell was only five years but I feel you bro 🙏

My god, get the fuck out of there and never look back.

As someone who experienced 5 years long relationship with a narcissist woman, all I can say narcissist people will never change. Never.

You can clearly read how bias his story is and how much he is after Ree's sympathy, yet at the same time showing how cruel an individual he is. At one point he mentions that his wife has hyperemesis gravidarum. Hyperemesis gravidarum is a condition during pregnancy that causes extreme vomiting and nausea, as well as weight loss.

So she's suffering all of this while pregnant with their second kid, and he boasts:

"Like the previous pregnancy, she had Hyperemesis gravidarum (HG). It was rough. But I was there for her. She almost immediately called in sick at work and stayed home for the entire duration of the pregnancy. I'll tell you; rough year. Many fights. But I fought back. I got this. This time I'll tell her how I feel too"

Well done, dude. Your wife going through a tough second pregnancy, as well as dealing with all your non-stop self-pitying shit, and you proudly state how you fought back. Proper Father and Husband of the Year material right there. 

And Era is cheering this guy on without opening his eyes to his own glaring flaws.

Nobody hates women more than the incels on Era.

Ree loathe women, cis women that is.

[Jansen]

Has anyone posted a confirmation about the monkey game that rises above ‘just trust me bro I’m super cereal?’

I don’t doubt that it could actually be real but the actual evidence seems fairly thin

Also I’m playing the shit outta monkey game, it seems like every game they go hard against truly does rule on the basis of its own gaminess.

It's real.

Senior contributor for Forbes said so after he heard from a friend that he trusts. Trust me bro.

[Propagandhim]

Has anyone posted a confirmation about the monkey game that rises above ‘just trust me bro I’m super cereal?’
I don’t doubt that it could actually be real but the actual evidence seems fairly thin
Also I’m playing the shit outta monkey game, it seems like every game they go hard against truly does rule on the basis of its own gaminess.

A couple artists and cofounders have said some really stupid shit in regards to women.

[Jansen]

Yup, all of this, basically. Stellar Blade got a pass from most folks around here, this thing will get a pass, but empty sentiments will continue without fail.

Seeing people in this very thread bending over backwards to try and justify the memo sent to influencers or attempting to argue that it's being misinterpreted is just maddening. It's not like this is the first time shit from this studio has made its way out but folks determined to play this game and talk about it still feel the need to try and play devil's advocate so they can sleep better at night and tell themselves they're still good, ethical allies.

None of us are perfect in regards to the shit we consume and these days it can often feel like consuming and enjoying entertainment of any kind usually means having to be uncomfortably morally flexible in some way or another, but cases that are so clear cut like this shouldn't require this much discussion. This company is trash. They've made their stance clear. You buy this, play it, support it, that's where your moral barometer really lands, not wherever you think it lands based on some half-hearted platitudes you post on a video game forum

[D3RANG3D]

Has anyone posted a confirmation about the monkey game that rises above ‘just trust me bro I’m super cereal?’
I don’t doubt that it could actually be real but the actual evidence seems fairly thin
Also I’m playing the shit outta monkey game, it seems like every game they go hard against truly does rule on the basis of its own gaminess.

A couple artists and cofounders have said some really stupid shit in regards to women.

Were there any lies told though...

[Propagandhim]

I mean, what does it matter?  

but cases that are so clear cut like this shouldn't require this much discussion. This company is trash. They've made their stance clear. You buy this, play it, support it, that's where your moral barometer really lands, not wherever you think it lands based on some half-hearted platitudes you post on a video game forum

They said this same exact thing about Cyberpunk as a "clear cut" case and their most ardent supporters played it multiple times over.  They said it about Harry Potter, and the mods picked it up and played it.  You can only cry wolf about the worst thing on earth so many times.  Just don't buy the game and move on with your life.  The whining is contributing to the desensitization of this kind of activism and people are losing their taste for it.  Especially people with actual lives and not an infinite amount of time on their hands like on Resetera.

[Jansen]

Has anyone posted a confirmation about the monkey game that rises above ‘just trust me bro I’m super cereal?’
I don’t doubt that it could actually be real but the actual evidence seems fairly thin
Also I’m playing the shit outta monkey game, it seems like every game they go hard against truly does rule on the basis of its own gaminess.

A couple artists and cofounders have said some really stupid shit in regards to women.

[Hap Shaughnessy]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ive-woken-up-from-a-nine-year-toxic-relationship-i-need-help.956109/#post-127320789

As someone who experienced 5 years long relationship with a narcissist woman, all I can say narcissist people will never change. Never.

Nothing will get better, OP. I know this is really difficult to process but it's reality.

[Venice]

From the 'I've woken up from a toxic nine year relationship' thread... it just gets worse. So much worse.

He just wrote that most of his wife's family were killed when a Russian missile hit an aeroplane over Ukraine a decade ago!

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ive-woken-up-from-a-nine-year-toxic-relationship-i-need-help.956109/page-2#post-127338432

She hasn't. Ever. But trust me if anyone needed one it's her. Remember one of those flights that got shot down over Ukrainian airspace a decade ago? I'm trying to be a little vague here. But most of her family was on that. There's no way that doesn't do something to you, no matter how strong you are. But she nor her sister ever needed help, always dismissed it.

I did tell her a few times that maybe she needed to talk to someone. But how dare I suggest that. If anyone ever needed to talk to someone it was me. Not her. She was fine. I was the one that was unstable

He's referring to this flight:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Malaysia_Airlines_Flight_17

Quite a lot of people on Era disgust me. Kyuuji. Excelsiorf. Crossing Eden. VisaWife. CuckyCal. AnalSmasher. Brazilian cosplaying black supremacist Nepenthe.

But this guy really reaches a new sewer level of low. I haven't seen anyone this shameless, self-pitying and pathetic on there before. His wife has been through so much shit with him, has lost most of her family to a fucking missile strike... yet there he is, trashing her online just so he can get a few pats on the back about how much he has apparently suffered because of her.

Yeah dude. You clearly are unstable. No wonder she couldn't open up to you.

The only good thing for her is that the 2 kids aren't biologically connected to him. Hope she runs and finds true happiness. She's basically been supporting 3 kids for the past decade.

[Propagandhim]

Holy shit lol...

[Hap Shaughnessy]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ive-woken-up-from-a-nine-year-toxic-relationship-i-need-help.956109/#post-127328169

OP, if you actually want help, go to professionals and seek counsel. Not friends or online comments, but certified professionals who deal with relationship counseling or mental illness.

All you'll get from forums like this is either derision, or echo chambered empathy, which can be equally unhelpful, if it's reinforcing a belief or behavior which internet strangers can only draw assumptions about given the limited information available.

I'm in the derision camp, so I'll obviously playfully advise that iDOLM@STER will never betray you. But, seriously suggest you look for professional help outside forums.

[Venice]

This thread just keeps on giving, lol:

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ive-woken-up-from-a-nine-year-toxic-relationship-i-need-help.956109/page-2#post-127338822

Document everything. You'll need it when it comes to divorce time. What she is doing is criminal. You're a battered husband. Call law enforcement and see if you're eligible for placement is an a abused male shelter

[Nintex]

her family got shot down on MH17?

What's the next plot twist, his father being the donor? 

[Venice]

Moral of the story for (biological) women:

Don't let crazy stick your dick in you.

[Hap Shaughnessy]

her family got shot down on MH17?

What's the next plot twist, his father being the donor? 

He ends up being this guy:
https://www.resetera.com/threads/arizona-dad-of-2-year-old-who-died-in-hot-car-was-distracted-by-video-game-often-left-kids-in-car.955758/

[Uncle]

he ends up being beandad

[DavidCroquet]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ive-woken-up-from-a-nine-year-toxic-relationship-i-need-help.956109/#post-127328169

OP, if you actually want help, go to professionals and seek counsel. Not friends or online comments, but certified professionals who deal with relationship counseling or mental illness.

All you'll get from forums like this is either derision, or echo chambered empathy, which can be equally unhelpful, if it's reinforcing a belief or behavior which internet strangers can only draw assumptions about given the limited information available.

I'm in the derision camp, so I'll obviously playfully advise that iDOLM@STER will never betray you. But, seriously suggest you look for professional help outside forums.

DarkLordOtaku would make a quality the Bire poster.

[Boredfrom]

1724017223[/url]']
From the 'I've woken up from a toxic nine year relationship' thread... it just gets worse. So much worse.

He just wrote that most of his wife's family were killed when a Russian missile hit an aeroplane over Ukraine a decade ago!

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ive-woken-up-from-a-nine-year-toxic-relationship-i-need-help.956109/page-2#post-127338432

She hasn't. Ever. But trust me if anyone needed one it's her. Remember one of those flights that got shot down over Ukrainian airspace a decade ago? I'm trying to be a little vague here. But most of her family was on that. There's no way that doesn't do something to you, no matter how strong you are. But she nor her sister ever needed help, always dismissed it.

I did tell her a few times that maybe she needed to talk to someone. But how dare I suggest that. If anyone ever needed to talk to someone it was me. Not her. She was fine. I was the one that was unstable

He's referring to this flight:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Malaysia_Airlines_Flight_17

Quite a lot of people on Era disgust me. Kyuuji. Excelsiorf. Crossing Eden. VisaWife. CuckyCal. AnalSmasher. Brazilian cosplaying black supremacist Nepenthe.

But this guy really reaches a new sewer level of low. I haven't seen anyone this shameless, self-pitying and pathetic on there before. His wife has been through so much shit with him, has lost most of her family to a fucking missile strike... yet there he is, trashing her online just so he can get a few pats on the back about how much he has apparently suffered because of her.

Yeah dude. You clearly are unstable. No wonder she couldn't open up to you.

The only good thing for her is that the 2 kids aren't biologically connected to him. Hope she runs and finds true happiness. She's basically been supporting 3 kids for the past decade.

Is this the plot of Midsommar?

[Lonewulfeus]

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“ I finally got rid of my lazy, dirty, impotent, good for nothing ex,” says lady who married a ree.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ive-woken-up-from-a-nine-year-toxic-relationship-i-need-help.956109/

Lesson for the Reeees reading this...don't stick your dick in crazy. Even if it's the only women that will look at you. There's a reason she had no friends. She's crazy. Keep your dick out of it.

Ftfy

[Boredfrom]

I mean, what does it matter?  

but cases that are so clear cut like this shouldn't require this much discussion. This company is trash. They've made their stance clear. You buy this, play it, support it, that's where your moral barometer really lands, not wherever you think it lands based on some half-hearted platitudes you post on a video game forum

They said this same exact thing about Cyberpunk as a "clear cut" case and their most ardent supporters played it multiple times over.  They said it about Harry Potter, and the mods picked it up and played it.  You can only cry wolf about the worst thing on earth so many times.  Just don't buy the game and move on with your life.  The whining is contributing to the desensitization of this kind of activism and people are losing their taste for it.  Especially people with actual lives and not an infinite amount of time on their hands like on Resetera.

While I don’t believe this should get a ban (  ) those comments are probably worse than anything CD Projeck, ShiftUp and Rowling did. But somehow they need to pretend that the main reason why people don’t give a shit anymore is not them desensitized after all BS, so they conflate this shit. 

In the end, is all performative BS. In the Burka thread, PrincessChicle is mentioning how she wishes to buy all the merch from the Limbus Company dev but they have an actual confirmed case of firing someone because “Korean feminism”. But because is a game that appeals her “refined” lesbian sensibilities, not even a comment after the initial outcry.