Random Talk

[Potato]

I appreciate the sentiment Potato but characters like Bateman are based on my personality. I don't lean into it as much anymore though and the human interaction skills have improved especially with women, that's why dates work out better.

This is the source of many of your problems. I say this with complete love and respect, but I think you're leaning way to much into this ENTJ (or whatever) personality thing, and rather than it being a description of your natural state, you're trying to bend your personality to fit neatly into the descriptor, because that's what you aspire to be. 

Lots of people do it, they let the personality test result dictate their personality rather than understand it's just a descriptor of their personality traits in certain circumstances. While you may be ENTJ in your professional life, no one, and I mean NO ONE, has the same personality in their personal and professional life and just going by your description of your compassion, camaraderie and humanity for your parents and brother, you clearly aren't that in your personal life. 

Just be yourself when you're dating and stop trying to be something else as described by a silly personality test. You're a likeable guy from my experience, let that shine through instead of obscuring it with a facade of bravado adopted from too much internet.

I want to see you thrive my dude. Relax a little and take a breath. Sometimes we all get caught up in our own heads and it's good to take a step back and reassess our approach.

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Holy shit, am I messofaneggo in disguise?