Journal of Other Forum Analysis

[Potato]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/israel-begins-bombing-of-southern-gaza-following-collapse-of-ceasefire-see-staff-posts-for-posting-guidelines.772478/page-300?post=121403487#post-121403487

Teen Vogue did a profile on Aaron Bushnell last month.

They just keep outing themselves...

[Steven Snell]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/why-women-criticise-sexualised-character-designs-ot3-make-her-look-more-corpulent-more-stuffed-where-the-eyes-cant-escape.275780/page-360?post=121399098#post-121399098

Some peeps seriously need to have been told at some point in their lives that being horny is not a personality. But lowkey that would require having a friend circle in the first place, I get the feeling for so many of these hentai addicted creeps that that's a hard task so their only means of feedback is either other likeminded creeps online.

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https://www.resetera.com/threads/why-women-criticise-sexualised-character-designs-ot3-make-her-look-more-corpulent-more-stuffed-where-the-eyes-cant-escape.275780/page-360?post=121401531#post-121401531

Sometimes I just wonder if devs can't just be allowed to make whatever the fuck character they want. Hey great that there's a varied look of character looks in games, really. But when the majority of female characters now already look like the type that Resetera wants it to be, is it that much of a bother that FF7 Rebirth and Stellar Blade goes against that?

[Nintex]

Legit wonder if making a thread about this would get you banned on RE

Depressing but not surprising.
I bet you it is going to be similar in many parts of the world.

Statistically speaking, it’s the second (or first) largest religion, with most from territories with ethno nationalism mentalities.
Furthermore, I suspect that quarter in Britain are immigrants from decades ago. The idea of integrating with the host culture used to matter, with the understanding they immigrated for a reason. That’s been ignored lately. And the children of that older generation of immigrants are dumbasses rebelling against mommy and daddy by siding with isis. On principle, I think secular islam is possible. There’s the argument any examples in the past didn’t last. But that’s on ignorant westerners folding at accusations of islamophobia and other silly blaspheming. We have no issue distinguishing between different extremes of christianity, or even judaism… mostly. The back and forth of yelling islamophobia and antisemitism at any criticism is a bit silly.
The other day I saw True Lies brought up. How it’s islamophobic and bad. Then you remember like ten years ago, the Kingsman movie had a scene where westboro members are massacred inside a church. People celebrated it. It’s weird.

The western mind cannot comprehend how Islam works because we don't really believe in anything that much.
Christians bend over backwards easily on each issue so the librul assumption is that Muslims are just like Christians. When it comes down to it they will do the "right" thing, agree to disagree etc. . But that's not how Islam works, it has never worked like that. You can't bribe, negotiate or reason with it. 

The idea of Islam is not to win people over, the idea is to conquer by the sword(and the womb, rape is a weapon of war) and become a martyr if need be. 
The teachings are not guidance for which laws may be written, Sharia Law is literally the Islamic law. In fact, Sharia Law supersedes any mortal laws. Some might be reluctant to fight or protest but that does not mean they don't agree with the Sharia principles. In fact, most of them sympathize with radical Islamic groups because while they might not agree with the methods, they do agree with the objective. Children are taught all the core elements of Islam from an early age by design and people that leave Islam must be killed. The only peaceful Islamic society is the Islamic society where Islam is in charge and the majority are Muslims. In that case, the 'peace' has been achieved and you can welcome others into your homes as friends. If that 'peace' has not been achieved, the only answer is 'holy war', Jihad.  

Only if you accept this reality can you fight back against this and indeed reform Islam but everyone rather holds on to the fantasy that 'somehow' they get weary of centuries of Jihad and some 'liberal' peaceful form of Islam will magically appear.

[Gameboy Nostalgia]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/i-think-i-realized-that-i-have-no-real-friends.837858/

Yesterday, I was hanging out with my friends from high school. I have known them for over 10 years and I consider us to be close friends. We have a lot of fun when we hang out together, but they are strangely jealous and very materialistic. I invited a friend to eat out and he told me that it was expensive but he wouldn't mind but he said "You couldn't afford it". I don't understand why he said such a thing. My other friend was unnecessarily jealous. All three of us are 27 years old. But I get comments from outside that I look too young. More than 20 people said that I looked 20 years old at most. I'm not bragging about this, but when I said this while we were hanging out yesterday, a friend of mine got angry and claimed I was lying. Afterwards, he showed me a message from a girl saying "You look 22-23 years old" and said that I looked like I am in my 30s. Frankly, I think such a thing is very childish and I have become alienated from my friends. I enjoy hanging out with them, but they have different egos. I think I'll limit hanging out with them. After all these years I really don't have true friend.

I hope they talk to their friends and not take Era's advice. Era would like that everyone drops their friends and family over the most dumb thing so that OP can be as miserable as them. 
It could be misunderstood banter and the friend didn't know they took it too far. 

[Gameboy Nostalgia]

Thank you for the support and duas. My dear Mother passed away yesterday morning. May Allah give her Jannah firdous and make next journey easy. We will be having namaz e Janazah at ISCJ after Dhuhr prayers today and then burial.

 I hope their mother went without pain. That's rough for the OP.

[Gameboy Nostalgia]

Depressing but not surprising.
I bet you it is going to be similar in many parts of the world.

Statistically speaking, it’s the second (or first) largest religion, with most from territories with ethno nationalism mentalities.
Furthermore, I suspect that quarter in Britain are immigrants from decades ago. The idea of integrating with the host culture used to matter, with the understanding they immigrated for a reason. That’s been ignored lately. And the children of that older generation of immigrants are dumbasses rebelling against mommy and daddy by siding with isis. On principle, I think secular islam is possible. There’s the argument any examples in the past didn’t last. But that’s on ignorant westerners folding at accusations of islamophobia and other silly blaspheming. We have no issue distinguishing between different extremes of christianity, or even judaism… mostly. The back and forth of yelling islamophobia and antisemitism at any criticism is a bit silly.
The other day I saw True Lies brought up. How it’s islamophobic and bad. Then you remember like ten years ago, the Kingsman movie had a scene where westboro members are massacred inside a church. People celebrated it. It’s weird.

The western mind cannot comprehend how Islam works because we don't really believe in anything that much.
Christians bend over backwards easily on each issue so the librul assumption is that Muslims are just like Christians. When it comes down to it they will do the "right" thing, agree to disagree etc. . But that's not how Islam works, it has never worked like that. You can't bribe, negotiate or reason with it. 

The idea of Islam is not to win people over, the idea is to conquer by the sword(and the womb, rape is a weapon of war) and become a martyr if need be. 
The teachings are not guidance for which laws may be written, Sharia Law is literally the Islamic law. In fact, Sharia Law supersedes any mortal laws. Some might be reluctant to fight or protest but that does not mean they don't agree with the Sharia principles. In fact, most of them sympathize with radical Islamic groups because while they might not agree with the methods, they do agree with the objective. Children are taught all the core elements of Islam from an early age by design and people that leave Islam must be killed. The only peaceful Islamic society is the Islamic society where Islam is in charge and the majority are Muslims. In that case, the 'peace' has been achieved and you can welcome others into your homes as friends. If that 'peace' has not been achieved, the only answer is 'holy war', Jihad.  

Only if you accept this reality can you fight back against this and indeed reform Islam but everyone rather holds on to the fantasy that 'somehow' they get weary of centuries of Jihad and some 'liberal' peaceful form of Islam will magically appear.

They want Islam to reform but Islam does not need to reform.   The far left liberal needs to understand that knees will not be bent to their misguided and degenerate ideology.

This is what the liberal wants https://www.reddit.com/r/progressive_islam/?rdt=49944

[Hap Shaughnessy]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/i-think-i-realized-that-i-have-no-real-friends.837858/

Yesterday, I was hanging out with my friends from high school. I have known them for over 10 years and I consider us to be close friends. We have a lot of fun when we hang out together, but they are strangely jealous and very materialistic. I invited a friend to eat out and he told me that it was expensive but he wouldn't mind but he said "You couldn't afford it". I don't understand why he said such a thing. My other friend was unnecessarily jealous. All three of us are 27 years old. But I get comments from outside that I look too young. More than 20 people said that I looked 20 years old at most. I'm not bragging about this, but when I said this while we were hanging out yesterday, a friend of mine got angry and claimed I was lying. Afterwards, he showed me a message from a girl saying "You look 22-23 years old" and said that I looked like I am in my 30s. Frankly, I think such a thing is very childish and I have become alienated from my friends. I enjoy hanging out with them, but they have different egos. I think I'll limit hanging out with them. After all these years I really don't have true friend.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/one-of-my-closest-friend-became-really-annoying-but-i-dont-have-any-close-friends-to-hangout.797724/

https://www.resetera.com/threads/there-is-an-employee-with-the-same-name-as-me-at-my-current-workplace-so-i-couldnt-use-my-preferred-name.808905/

https://www.resetera.com/threads/i-am-thinking-about-becoming-a-ghost-for-6-months-what-do-you-think.811809/

https://www.resetera.com/threads/i-had-a-problem-with-security-of-apartment-where-my-therapist-had-and-i-don%E2%80%99t-want-to-go-therapy-now.800568/

[Gameboy Nostalgia]

Starting to think SilentEagle might be the problem.. Don't know, just a little feeling.

[Steven Snell]

Starting to think SilentEagle might be the problem.. Don't know, just a little feeling.

Wouldn't you wanna be friends with him though???

[Rendle]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/israel-begins-bombing-of-southern-gaza-following-collapse-of-ceasefire-see-staff-posts-for-posting-guidelines.772478/page-300?post=121403487#post-121403487

Teen Vogue did a profile on Aaron Bushnell last month.

"5 different gadgets to shave your legs so that 'Special Someone' will sit up and take notice"

"Chloe Grace Moretz gets real about growing up in the spotlight and ignoring the haters"

"Self-Immolation: hottest Summer trend or yesterday's fad?"

[Polident]

Friendship is accepting the good and bad of others. He’s failing that contract. If anything he seems to think friends are there to reinforce his self perception and wants. Or you can blame the friends for not being as explicit with him

Way back in high school, a friend pulled me aside and said I need to stop talking about Metal Gear Solid 2 in front of girls. Sometimes you need those harsh truths to grow as a person.

[BIONIC]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/gamergate-2-0-chuds-furious-about-a-consulting-company-named-“sweet-baby-inc”-which-overviews-scripts-to-make-sure-nothing-offensive-was-written.823731/page-35?post=121395066#post-121395066

While it is disgusting that these people are blantant about their attraction to children which is really gross and scary as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, it is worth noting that most real life pedophiles aren't even excluisvely attract to children (and some not attracted at all) with it more being about abusive power dynamics and wanting absolute control over the children. Like my abuser fucked me because he was between relationships and he had a disabled little boy he could do anything he wanted with without anyone finding out really. This however doesn't make any of this right, and by normalising this stuff, I do feel that it could lead to situations where peoplewho do feel attraction towards kids for whatever reason are more likely to engineer atrocious situations. It is also just vile that so much media targeted at otaku just has "fanservice" of underage characters, even relatively "tame" stuff like Love Live

[Steven Snell]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/gamergate-2-0-chuds-furious-about-a-consulting-company-named-“sweet-baby-inc”-which-overviews-scripts-to-make-sure-nothing-offensive-was-written.823731/page-35?post=121395066#post-121395066

While it is disgusting that these people are blantant about their attraction to children which is really gross and scary as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, it is worth noting that most real life pedophiles aren't even excluisvely attract to children (and some not attracted at all) with it more being about abusive power dynamics and wanting absolute control over the children. Like my abuser fucked me because he was between relationships and he had a disabled little boy he could do anything he wanted with without anyone finding out really. This however doesn't make any of this right, and by normalising this stuff, I do feel that it could lead to situations where peoplewho do feel attraction towards kids for whatever reason are more likely to engineer atrocious situations. It is also just vile that so much media targeted at otaku just has "fanservice" of underage characters, even relatively "tame" stuff like Love Live

That's enough internet for me today.

[Gameboy Nostalgia]

Flew too high to the sun! TWOHEARTS YOU'RE GOING TO BE BANNED NOW.

[Nintex]

Dear traveler listen to this cat and do not under any circumstance read the previous page

[tweet]https://twitter.com/SpaceCatMemes/status/1776614314553569318

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[Propagandhim]

TwoHearts playing the long game.  Setting herself up as a traumatic rape survivor and part of a community of neurodivergent folx.   The power armor has come online.  She's almost invincible.  You want to ban her so bad, but she has already powered up.  It will inspire an insurrection....or worse....a summit. TwoHearts, quick, gather allies.  The road is long and the winter harsh.

[Besticus Maximus]

The only people stupid enough to think Two Hearts is a true and honest account are the Restera staff

[Gameboy Nostalgia]

TwoHearts playing the long game.  Setting herself up as a traumatic rape survivor and part of a community of neurodivergent folx.   The power armor has come online.  She's almost invincible.  You want to ban her so bad, but she has already powered up.  It will inspire an insurrection....or worse....a summit. TwoHearts, quick, gather allies.  The road is long and the winter harsh.

[Gameboy Nostalgia]

[tweet]https://twitter.com/SpaceCatMemes/status/1776614314553569318

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When Benji writes a 1000 word reply to a single sentence quote from Resetera.

[Nintex]

WHERE THE HELL IS BRIDIE

[books]

Very brave of TwoHearts to talk about trauma. Anyone got something to say should be banned after hearing this lived experience.

[HaughtyFrank]

Now I'm not an expert, but this must be the first time I heard an abuse victim referring to their abuse as "fucked me"...

[Uncle]

Friendship is accepting the good and bad of others. He’s failing that contract. If anything he seems to think friends are there to reinforce his self perception and wants. Or you can blame the friends for not being as explicit with him

Way back in high school, a friend pulled me aside and said I need to stop talking about Metal Gear Solid 2 in front of girls. Sometimes you need those harsh truths to grow as a person.

false. 55% of all gamers are women. real women will appreciate your knowledge of metal gear solid 2

[Gameboy Nostalgia]

If you were upset about having to play Raiden for the majority of metal gear solid 2 then you're a chud.

[Boredfrom]

Legit wonder if making a thread about this would get you banned on RE

Depressing but not surprising.

I bet you it is going to be similar in many parts of the world.

Statistically speaking, it’s the second (or first) largest religion, with most from territories with ethno nationalism mentalities.

Furthermore, I suspect that quarter in Britain are immigrants from decades ago. The idea of integrating with the host culture used to matter, with the understanding they immigrated for a reason. That’s been ignored lately. And the children of that older generation of immigrants are dumbasses rebelling against mommy and daddy by siding with isis. On principle, I think secular islam is possible. There’s the argument any examples in the past didn’t last. But that’s on ignorant westerners folding at accusations of islamophobia and other silly blaspheming. We have no issue distinguishing between different extremes of christianity, or even judaism… mostly. The back and forth of yelling islamophobia and antisemitism at any criticism is a bit silly.

The other day I saw True Lies brought up. How it’s islamophobic and bad. Then you remember like ten years ago, the Kingsman movie had a scene where westboro members are massacred inside a church. People celebrated it. It’s weird.

 Is fucking sad how much the discourse has devolved in that regard. I also think that secular Islam is possible, but people need to stop playing the usual identity politics BS. You have assholes like Hasan piker that don’t even seem to believe half of the shit they are saying.

[Uncle]

hasan piker is an empty shell, a drone running a script on high school meathead hardware

there's nothing behind the eyes, like a doll's eyes

[Hap Shaughnessy]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/i-think-i-realized-that-i-have-no-real-friends.837858/

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Yesterday, I was hanging out with my friends from high school. I have known them for over 10 years and I consider us to be close friends. We have a lot of fun when we hang out together, but they are strangely jealous and very materialistic. I invited a friend to eat out and he told me that it was expensive but he wouldn't mind but he said "You couldn't afford it". I don't understand why he said such a thing. My other friend was unnecessarily jealous. All three of us are 27 years old. But I get comments from outside that I look too young. More than 20 people said that I looked 20 years old at most. I'm not bragging about this, but when I said this while we were hanging out yesterday, a friend of mine got angry and claimed I was lying. Afterwards, he showed me a message from a girl saying "You look 22-23 years old" and said that I looked like I am in my 30s. Frankly, I think such a thing is very childish and I have become alienated from my friends. I enjoy hanging out with them, but they have different egos. I think I'll limit hanging out with them. After all these years I really don't have true friend.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/my-co-workers-are-ignoring-me-and-some-of-my-friends.766100/

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I've started to this job back in May 2022. Our company has around 100 employees and our team has 9 members. When I started, I see people that are doing jokes and talking to each other. Since I didn't know anyone I thought talking to people would be good idea to socialize but sadly there wasn't an opportunity.

In my 3rd week there was a BBQ event. I thought its perfect time. When three people talk to each other from cinema and games (I am gonna name them A, B and C and A is our team lead), I expressed some of my opinions too but they just say "Yeah. Okay." Or just didn't care.

After the BBQ, A organized a camping event with friends but they said they need more people and in front of us (newbies) they didn't even offered to us. B just called his friends outside the work and C doesn't even know them but they still didn't invite us.

So I start to hang out with new employees like me. I had good friendship with them. We drink coffee go, for a walk, eat together etc.

But some weeks later, C approached the only woman in our group for drinking coffee and go for a walk and didn't even invite us. All of these happens in front of us. And when I talk to my friend, she said B doesn't trust other people so much so that's why when he makes an organization, he doesn't invite you or others. But after that, I learn that A and C are like this too.

Nearly 1.5 years have passed and nothing has changed. C invited her to their annually camping and they went driving school together. Well of course I don't care about this but I told this because to say, they can hang out with new friends and ignoring us.

I can understand that maybe they don't want to hang out with us but they don't even talk to us daily. I might switch jobs because of that. My old job had great people and I miss my friends at there.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/my-5-and-half-years-long-relationship-just-ended.742557/

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Hello, Era.

It was my longest relationship. I really loved her. I don't know what to feel now but I really loved her. She was constantly arguing with me. She hated my parents. She was comparing me with the other guys for years. Yeah I am gonna make a summary now.

We started to date in 2018 and she always talk about a guy that she couldn't forget while we were dating but meanwhile she said she wanted to marry me. We were both at college back then. I got it but why want marry me if you don't like my acts? We solved it but then she constantly breaks up with me or hangs up the phone while we were arguing. Years have passed. We got better but core problems remained and she is talking bad about my parents again. She thinks they are the reason why we can't marry and I did everything for my mother and my girlfriend to get among well. My parents tried to like her and they tried to feel her comfortable but Last sunday she visited our home and it was the first time I thought everything is solved but no she bring up another problem a day later and she stopped talking to me again. I tried to apologize and she blamed my parents again.

We went to holiday in wednesday. Everything was good at first but then again she argued. We solved by talking and she argued again the cycle continued. I was thinking about breaking up but when we went to city she said she loves me and I settled down but when I texted her yesterday she said she hates my parents she doesn't want to talk to them. Today we went to drink coffee and I said tried my best but I can't carry on anymore then she left and cried but when I was going home she called me and texted me over and over again. I don't want to talk to her again but one of my part misses her.

She said marriage will solve all of the problems but I was afraid that worse things can happen. I am really upset right now. She wants me back but I don't know. I suffered a lot in this releationship and I love her but I am not sure.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/closing-my-personal-social-media-accounts-improved-my-mental-health-significantly.829242/

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I have social media accounts but I am not using it with real name and I do follow professional accounts for my job and hobbies. It made my mental health so much better. I am happier person overall. Just wanted to share. It's better when you don't see other people's life. Of course we need friends and relationships but they need to be healthy.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/which-game-that-made-you-sad-most-because-your-friend-borrow-it-and-never-returned.713372/

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A friend of mine (he was) took LotR: Conquest, CoD: Black Ops and Max Payne 3 from me and never returned. Max Payne 3 made me really sad because it was a special game. He never returned the game and he and I aren't talking because we argued.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/my-father-is-my-best-friend-but-i-think-he-is-gaslighting-me-for-years.763670/

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Me and my father are like best friends but he has extremely big ego. He argue with me and start attacking me verbally if I say something against his ego. If I don't stop giving answers, he starts ghosting me. But he is not like this in real life. Most of the people used him and he went bankrupt.

My father has a problem with my uncle (the older brother of my mother) and while we were arguing with my father my mother said "please stop arguing." And my father said "I stopped arguing with your brother so I am not gonna this time." When he got angry he becomes so hostile to me.

He is eating a lot for last 10 years and I said "dad, please do not eat unhealthy." He says "will you be happy if I die?". This kind of conversations makes me extremely sad because I love my father. He is basically my best friend we spend 3-4 hours everyday. Of course we are not arguing everyday but still I can't make this stop. What should I do?

https://www.resetera.com/threads/my-ex-sent-me-an-email-after-2-5-months-of-no-contact.770213/

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She was narcissist and my therapist said she was psychological abuser. That's why I was happy that it ended but when I was checking my emails I see that she is going to therapist too and she wishes me good luck on my life and she said our relationship were special. When I read it I started to cry for 1 hour. And maybe I might send an email back but I don't know?

I don't want to be with her again but one of my part misses her. It was 5.5 years long relationship with ups and downs but there were lots of gaslighting and ghosting from her.

I just wanted to expresss my feelings, Era. Y'all have been very helpful to me before.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/my-narcissist-ex-sent-me-an-email-after-7-months-of-our-breakup.812910/


https://www.resetera.com/threads/my-cousin-died-we-couldn%E2%80%99t-get-along-well-but-i-am-burst-into-tears-now.795252/

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I work as a research assistant at the university. I woke up very early to make quiz to students. I went to bed very late at night and was sleepy because I had to grade the exams the day before. I wanted to have a coffee after the quiz, but I called my dad. Maybe we can drink together. He said that heart massage was performed on my cousin and my uncle came to the car crying. I didn't care at first because my cousin was 20 years old and a volleyball player. She had healthy life. I thought she went to the hospital as a precaution. 15 minutes later my father called and said my cousin had died. It surprised me very much. She used to make me so annoyed when she was alive. not only in her childhood but also when she grows up. 3 years ago, she took my charging cable and never returned and she took it without asking me. That's why I didn't answer her calls for some time. Because I was waiting for an apology. But no matter what, I couldn't get angry at her because she was my annoying cousin. I didn't cry at all until I went to the morgue. I hugged my uncle and he was exhausted. He had a coffee cup in his hand, drinking coffee and smoking a cigarette. I hugged him as soon as I saw him. I realized at that moment that my uncle loved me very much. I had to do everything to support him. I bought coffee for my uncle's friends. No one had eaten so I bought a snack. My uncle's ex-wife cried a lot. We hadn't seen his ex-wife for 15 years. As soon as she saw me, she said that my cousin loved me very much and always kept me separate from her other cousins. When I heard this, my eyes filled with tears because she spent her life to annoy me, but I could never get angry at her because she was my only cousin. While I was evaluating the papers, my cousin called my mother and said she wanted to talked to me. At that moment, I said I would see you tomorrow because I was grading the exams and I received this news a day later. My uncle is very bad. He thinks this pain will never go away. I can't console him. But I hope it gets better one day. Because I think my cheerful and humorous uncle will never come back.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/did-people-lost-their-empathy-lately.811080/

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I recently saw a conversation in a Discord group. They posted a photo of a truck overturned in the storm and people laughed at it. I said that the man may lose his job or there may be loss of lives and property. They continued to laugh and make fun of the truck's shape. I got angry and left. Why are people really so unsympathetic?

https://www.resetera.com/threads/how-do-you-find-time-for-everything-other-than-work.756319/

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When I had a girlfriend she consumed all of my time and I could barely play a game or watch something alone. Since we broke up I am playing BG3 but still I can't find time for it. I've only played 40 hours since release. I also beat A Plague Tale: Requiem. But also my father and I are watching Succession and sometimes I need to read some books or work out. If I work out or go for walking to grab a coffee I can't do any other thing. I see some people that play 50 hours in a week while working full time. It's nearly impossible for me. Is it all time management or I should wait for retirement (which I am not planning for the next 40 years)

https://www.resetera.com/threads/how-is-your-daily-routine.769082/

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In weekdays, I woke up in 6.50 AM and grab by breakfast + lunch and take the shuttle for work. I am not working remotely so I have to wake up early. After 1 hour of shuttle bus, I come to work and eat my breakfast with a cup of coffee. After the breakfast, I take a 30 minutes of walk around the campus and my shift starts. I work for 1.5 hours and then take 15-20 minutes of break and then after another 1.5 hours, lunch break starts. I usually eat my lunch alone because all of my friends love fast food and I eat healthy. After the break I work 2 more hours and give another break for 20-25 minutes, sometimes I grab a coffee with friends. My shift ends in 5.30 PM and I take shuttle again. I get home by 6.30-6.45 PM. I eat my dinner and after that I spend sometime with parents. After that I watch a TV show or a movie or play a game that I like. Before sleeping I exercise and take a shower. I am also doing MSc so in semester, I go to school too in 1.5 days in a week. If my friends are available, I go to outside with them twice a week.

I feel like my life is pretty boring and I might start to a new sports or maybe meet with new people. How is yours?

https://www.resetera.com/threads/is-it-possible-to-stay-in-shape-without-going-gym.740718/

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I am following a very strict diet for last 3 months. I've lost weight and its noticable and now I have healthy BMI. but because of my job I am sitting in front of computer for 8-10 hours. When I come home, I become really tired and I don't have time to go to GYM. How can I stay in good shape without going GYM? Can little changes make difference?

https://www.resetera.com/threads/is-only-thing-to-get-rid-of-being-skinny-fat-is-gym.762117/

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I've lost lots of weight but I am not looking fit. I look skinny but I still have belly fat problem. My waist is 88 CM. I am okey with the shirt on but if I wear something tight, sadly my love handles pops out lol.

I eat healthy 5 days of the week but for 2 days I eat fast food because of my friends and family. I try to do HIIT cardio but its extremely difficult for me. I was never a GYM person but is going to GYM only way to be fit instead of skinny fat? Because I think I need some muscle mass.

[Snoopy]

There's no way this won't be a creepy cringe fest

Went To A Swinger's Club Yesterday


and it was one of the most amazing thing I've ever experienced.

It's one of those things I would have never expected to try in my life but here I am, yesterday I ask my girlfriend almost as a joke if she would try to try such a thing and she said yes, let's to it tonight.

I'm really shy in general but for some reason, I had no problem at all. People were really friendly, open minded, etc. it was just a really fun night and I just can't wait to try it out again (we bought an annual pass so must likely we'll try it out again in the near future).

Anyway, have you ever been to such a place and if so, did you like it ?

 https://www.resetera.com/threads/went-to-a-swingers-club-yesterday.837894/

[No. 1 Boss Jocker]

3 years ago, she took my charging cable and never returned and she took it without asking me.

Now she is dead. Now I am very very sad.

But I do wish I could get that charging cable back.

[books]

Is it really a Sex orgy if it's just texting each other and jerking off?